Has anyone had a VBAC (Vaginal Birth After Ceserean)?

Melinda - posted on 05/30/2012 ( 291 moms have responded )

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I had a c-section with my little boy after not being able to dilate past a 7 after 32 hours in labor. I am a healthy 28 year old woman with no other health problems or high risk factors during pregnancy. I very much want to deliver my little girl. My husband is very supportive and says he'll stand by me whatever I decide to do. I am wanting advice from women who have had a VBAC (vaginal birth after cesarean) and how it worked for them?!?

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Ellen - posted on 06/04/2012

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I too had my vbac drug free! I was told by my doula that would be the best way to go to ensure no delays, which could cause the baby to distress. I had already planned on having a drug free birth, but wasn't sure if I would be able to. I had a lot of nausea with my first, but she had citrus smelling salts that helped me!

Melissa - posted on 06/04/2012

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I had 2 csections and then 2 VBACs. the VBACs changed my life :) I highly recommend trying it out for yourself to anyone. I am now pregnant with my 5th baby, and plan to have VBAC number 3. My advice to you is to do your research, learn everything you can, surround yourself with supportive people, and make sure your doctor is on board. Don't allow them to bully you into anything. It's your body, and you are in control of it! :)

I am so into supporting VBACs, that I even have a facebook page about it! Feel free to 'like' it
https://www.facebook.com/illbevback

Stephanie - posted on 06/04/2012

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I had a c-section with my 2nd child because she was breech. They told me not to get pregnant again for at least another year to make sure everything healed properly...well with my luck I got pregnant 6 months later. At the initial visit I was asked about a VBAC and told all the facts and my doctor was VERY supportive of it. She would much rather you have a baby the way they were designed to be born than cut you open and have all the recover time. I did my research and stuck with the c-section because I had just had a baby a year earlier and was worried about the healing process. But I was not apposed to the idea of VBAC if I went into labor before the c-section.
The day before I was scheduled to have my c-section I went into labor, I ended up having the baby naturally. I am very very glad I did! The recovery time is so much better alone. Nursing is so much easier. I would say the only down fall was that I could not get out of bed and walk during labor bc I had to stay on the monitors and I could not use the birthing bath or ball......so since I had to lay in bed anyways I took the epidural :) I get told that my opinion is skewed though because I have never been in labor over 4 hours with any of my 3 children. So that is my disclaimer :)
Good Luck and Congrats on your new blessing!!

Ellen - posted on 06/04/2012

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I had an emergency c-section with my first son. After 17 hours of labor, they lost his heart beat. Recovery was hard and long, so I would never opt for surgery again. My husband was deployed for my second pregancy, so I had a doula. (The military offers them for free now if your husband is deployed during pregnacy). I paid $400 and it was worth ever $$$!!! I absolutely did not want another c-section, so I didn't have an epidural or any meds!! My labor was 8 hours and there was no recovery time, was able to go home and hold my 18 month old!! Good luck! :)

Heather - posted on 06/04/2012

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I had a similar experience. I couldn't dilate past a 9 after 26 hours in labor with my first, so I had a c-section. However, 3 years later I had a VBAC with my son's delivery. The recovery is a lot better/faster, although I did have a long, difficult labor (almost 4 hours of pushing!) so at that time I was thinking I should have maybe done the c-section. I felt the doctors were wanting me to have a c-section because of the risk of uterine rupture with VBAC and I really had to be assertive about the VBAC. Luckily, I had gone into labor on my own and it had been a fair amount of time since my c-section, so my risk factors were down. Overall, I'd say yes, if you go into labor on your own, try to do the VBAC.

Doreen - posted on 06/04/2012

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I do not have personal experience with VBAC after a c-section, but from my reading I understand that it depends on the kind of cut that was used for the c-section. One direction it is safe and possible to have a VBAC, the other cut is not known to work well. You would have to talk with your Dr. to know if it is safe for you. The reason one cut works and not the other has to do with the way the uterus muscle contracts during birth and the direction of movement across the scar tissue.

Monica - posted on 06/04/2012

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I had a VBAC! Amazing experience and very healing for me. I got to 8cm with my first child and then discovered he was breech and cord wrapped around his neck, so we decided the safest option was a caesar.

However, I was determined second time around to have a natural birth. I really did my research, which was a good thing because the doctors weren't really into the whole idea. In the end my labour was actually longer than the first time because my daughter was posterior, but definitely worth it! The doctor was starting to talk about a caesar, but the midwives were really proctective of my wishes. I opted for continual monitoring with a scalp clip. That way I could move around, go in the shower and the doctors felt reassured that they knew what was going on. They were happy to know that I wasn't taking unnecessary risks even though I was insisting on a VBAC. Eventually I agreed to my waters being broken. I then went from 4cm dilated to a baby in my arms within 45mins! It's amazing what your body can do. My husband is still talking about how my vagina opened like a flower two years on LOL!!!

Go for it! It's actually no more of a risk than a caesar. In fact the risk of spliting your scar is 1% and the risk of being paralysed by the spinal block for a caesar is 1%! I hope you achieve a VBAC. All the best!

Lindsey - posted on 06/04/2012

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I had one. It was the most amazing experience of my life. I am glad that I got to experience birth both ways. I was not wanting to have another c section already having a 19month old at home and no family close. My husband and I decided to VBAC and see how it went. After about 15 hours of labour and 15 mins of pushing we had a beautiful healthy baby girl. It was very rewarding and exciting. My husband said he had a new found respect for me and that it was an experience he would never forget. He said it was so amazing to watch and that he was so proud of me. We both loved every minute of it, and the recovery was amazing. I was out shopping the day after I was released from the hospital. I would do it again in a heartbeat.

Sheena - posted on 06/04/2012

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I had a VBA2C with my son in october. My first was an emergency cesarean after he went butt first during labor anf had already had hid first bowel movement. With my 2nd I wanted a VBAC but didn't have support from family so I chickened out and scheduled a c-section for after her due date (hoping to go into labor). With my 3rd I knew I'd regret it again if I didn't give it a chance. I only had support from my husband, not my Dr. Again I let them schedule a cesarean after my due date but this time I went into labor a week early. Dr's still tried to discourage me because he was looking to be 10lbs. But it all worked out! I had an uncomplicated birth to my son via VBA2C. He is now a happy and healthy (almost) 8 month old! And I don't regret not listening to the Dr's one bit!! I'm not a crunchy mom in the least bit, I just followed my heart.

Carolyn - posted on 06/04/2012

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My first was vaginal, second was a C-section, then a VBAC. The C-section was horrible when it came to healing I was soooo glad I was able to have another vaginal Birth. I heard 4 out 0f 10 women that decide to have a VBAC still end up with complications and have to have another C-section. Good Luck to you.

Brenda - posted on 06/04/2012

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Yes, I had a vbac and it went great. I would absolutely recommend having one if you can.

Angela - posted on 06/04/2012

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It was the best decision I made, my VBAC was with my second child and he weighed in at 10lbs 4oz. It was truly an amazing experience and as long as you don't have any health problems or concerns I would definitely go for it!

Rachael - posted on 06/04/2012

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I was 20 w/my 1st. 24 hours of stargazing labor- a month early so I didn't get the breathing/pushing part of Lamaze. Baby was crowned and dr was yelling at me that I didn't know how to push so they did csections. Baby 2&3 were AWESOME VBACS. It's the most amazing experience EVER. Baby 4 ha to be csection bcuz he was born in fl and they frown upon anything risky. Go for natural birth. It's so nice and good! Who cares about the pain. The burn of the baby coming out and the ease and slip of the shoulders and body being born!!!! Then poof the pain is over and ur empty. :( but u have a baby!!! Yay!!

Cathy - posted on 06/04/2012

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Hi Melinda, I know exactly how you feel, i was 21 yrs old when i had my first son, labour was ready to push but was only at 5cm so they did an emergency c-section, i then went on to have my 2nd son born at 30wks vaginally and then my 3rd child full term also vaginally .... so yes it can be done and i had no problems at all having the natural birth after the cesa .... tell the docs you want to try as they trialed me as a trial scar... this enabling me to attempt a natural birth and would go for the cesa only if there were complication ... hope this helps you ,, cathy

Adi - posted on 06/04/2012

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I did! I had a midwife and actually had a homebirth. It's not for everyone, I know. Heck I used to think homebirthers were crazy, until I did the research myself. But a VBAC is less risky for mom and baby than a repeat c/s.

http://birthwithoutfearblog.com/2011/10/...


http://birthwithoutfearblog.com/2011/11/...‐year-population‐based-study-of-uterine-rupture-shows-risks-of-vbac-to-mom-and-baby-are-low/

Christie - posted on 06/04/2012

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Yes it was incredible would do it again in a moment. my c section was elective due to footling breech presentation so no labour. my second was completely natural 4.5 hours of intense labour. i did A LOT of research to prepare myself for any thing, i wrote a birthplan (preferances) for any eventuality including emergancy c section so that no matter what happened i could still have some control over the situation even if it was just making sure my husband stayed with the baby if they needed to transfer. i recommend looking up stalled labour because often a VBAC will stall at the same place the previous labour did and most of the time there are things you can do to get past it even if its getting an epidural and resting (i think would be the last resort for many but has its place) good luck!!

Jessica - posted on 06/04/2012

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My mother had 3 VBACs 28, 26, and 21 years ago, following 2 of the old-fashioned C-sections (cut vertically instead of a small incision horizontally at the pubis). The other women posting are correct. It is better for baby and for mother. It is not without risk and many hospitals won't do it, which doesn't make a lot of sense. My mother found real empowerment in reading "The Silent Knife." I'm not sure who the author is, but I'm sure you can Google it. I hope you are able to have the kind of birth you want. Good for you!

Michaela - posted on 06/04/2012

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Hey Melinda! I don't want to sway your decision, but I want to tell you my story. I had to have a c-section with my first so when I was pregnant with my second, I wanted to do another c-section. However, in Canada the doctors try to convince you that VBAC is the way to go. I was worried about it because I've heard of women's uterus' opening from the previous scar. Now I was told when I had my first baby (in the US) that I should definately opt for a c-section if I had a second, and to wait at least 24 months before getting pregnant again. Well luckly since I already had a c-section, it was my choice, so against the "pressure" from my ob, telling me I can do it, I decided the best option for me was another c-section. Good thing I did. My original due date was May 17th, so we scheduled it on May 5th. My c-secion scared the OB to the point he told me no more kids. :( My scar had dehissed (meaning pulled apart) to the point that he could see my daughter through my uterus. Had I tried a VBAC it is highly likely I would have hemeroaged and possibily died. This is what I had read about and feared. I guess my suggestion to you would be go with your gut feeling. For some reason, I had a bad feeling about trying a VBAC. I'm glad I went with another c-section. But everyone is different, and it definately doesn't happen to everyone. Just want you to consider the risks. Hope this helps!

Jo-Ann - posted on 06/04/2012

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My daughter was an emergency c section, her oxygen bottomed out and she was stuck, in distress so they had to get in there and get her. My son was born 3 years later and I had a normal vaginal birth, no complications. As long as its not too soon after the first c section, you'll be able to have a normal delivery. I had a great doctor who wanted me to try to deliver vaginally first and they would stand by but things went great. The doctors will be there monitoring you to see if you can do it. Good luck and congratulations.

Chloe - posted on 06/04/2012

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I had planned a VBAC but after a very health pregnancy nothing was happening and I ended up with another c-section on strong advice from my OB. When my baby boy was delivered my OB said that my uterus lining was so thin that if I had gone into labor naturally my scar/uterus would have definitely ruptured and my baby and I would not have made it. It gave everyone in the room chills. OB said that he should have done an elective c-section at 38 weeks or sooner. Whatever you decide, remember, please listen to the medical professionals. Don't let you image of your ideal birth get in the way of the health of you and your baby.

Sian - posted on 06/04/2012

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I had my 1st baby by emergency c-section, because of failure to dilate and being back to back, heartbeat dropping, many factors! I went on to have 2 girls my vaginal delivery, 1st one 17 months after c-section and 2nd 2 1/2 years later. Had no problems with either, just was unable to have water delivery which I wanted as had to be closely monitored. Go for it, they will keep a close eye on you and will pick up on any issues if the occur. Good luck, it's a great experience xx

Sheryl - posted on 06/04/2012

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hi melinda i had my 1st son by emerg c section in 83 then my daughter was natural birth 22 mths later there was no problem the only thing is you cant have an epidural after having a c section 1st

Romy - posted on 06/04/2012

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I also had a VBAC, and had so much hoped for it after having induced birth with my first daughter for five full days - did not have any "productive contractions". The VBAC was fantastic, I did not take any painkillers and did not have a PDA as I really wanted to embrace the pain. It was a beautiful birth, albeit more painful than a c-section, but I would do it the same again any day. Go for it; Melinda. All the best

PS: my first daughter (c-section) weighed 2960 gr, my second daughter (VB) 4130 grams !

Anke - posted on 06/04/2012

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I love this question as I'm very passionate about VBAC. I had a C with my first baby girl four years ago. After a very painful and utterly unnecessary C section at 38 weeks, I vowed never to be too shy to demand a second medical opinion and or have natural birth in the future. By the grace of God I found a wonderful doctor who assured me VBAC. Was not only possible, but better, second time around. So my second girl was born a year ago by VBAC - but a natural, 100% drug free birth and a few sore stitches I can assure any Mom its worth it over and pver again. No edpidural or cathater (spelling?) Or that is needed - statistically uteran tear is as likely with non C moms as moms who've had a C and have a scar area, its not a weak point or anything that should stop you from having your next baby naturally. And on average, I've found in my research that doctors who are pro-natural birth find a dramatic increase in labour time when an epidural has been administered, because we don't often consider the role baby plays in her own birth, but its as significant as Mommy's role and when Mommy's been drugged so has baby and the process is less painful but prolonged by roughly twice or three times the normal time, which is an average of 4 to 6 hours. Conventional medics will say 12 hours is normal but its usually an epidural birth time average. Note that I was in latent labour for 3 days - as we waited and waited for baby to do her thing and drop down into position. Because it was my first natural birth, it took very long for baby to get ready as it would've been with my first birth if she'd been natural, so treat it as your first birth to a degree, and give baby and yourself all the time in the world. Its the most pain I've ever experienced but doesn't compare to the C in so many ways. If its the desire of your heart, you should not deny yourself this most empowering experience of life.

Natalie - posted on 06/03/2012

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After being 10 days overdue and going on to 3 rounds of induction then having problems progressing and my son being turned a little bit and not coming down (eventhough I got to 9 cm) I had a c-sec. 2nd time around I could not see how having a 17 month old and a c-sec with a newborn to handle could work (plus I would rather NOT go that route anyhow) I opted for VBAC. I am in a small town with no L&D services, but my Dr here was fine with my choice. I would go to stay in a larger center with family and my Dr I have had since my teens or earlier. He also delvered my son. I spoke with him, my Dr in my town and the OBGYN who did the c-sec to see if there was any reason not to try and there was nothing specific. Plan was to see if I went in labour, if not by the 10 days over then I would have a c-sec waiting (because I would rather a c-sec than increase my risk of complication/scar rupture with induction - also some places/Drs won't offer induction). Amazingly enough I went into labour on my due date and did it completely natural.

You can do it!! AMAZING feeling. Feeding baby within minutes/seconds and eating and showering thereafter. Great feeling.

Kristin - posted on 06/03/2012

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Go the VBACs!

I had debate as to whether I got to 10cm or not, but after 17hrs of established labor we had an emergency section. My second I had a couple of days of niggles, and then 4hrs of established labour, and a perfect VBAC. I fully recommend you give it a shot.

My best advice is to visit www.spinningbabies.com When I was on it the site was a bit clunky, but the advice in it was invaluable! All the best!

Kimberly - posted on 06/03/2012

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I had a vbac for my second son it went good as long as your doctor says its good and your health is good. If you healed well it shouldn't be a problem for you to deliver naturally for your daughter you heal fast and after all that's what the nurses and doctors are there for. I healed good it was the best experience for me I thought I would never know what it was like to have vaginal birth. I'm having my third child in September another vbac. You'll be fine as long as your doctor says your ok to have a vbac congrats when is your little girl due.

Chantel - posted on 06/03/2012

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I am 42 years old I have had two c-sections and vaginal delivery. It was a wonderful experience after being in labor for 48 hours.

Christina - posted on 06/03/2012

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I had a VBAC two months ago. My first birth with my son was an emergency c-section due to fetal distress - he wasn't coping with contractions well and we couldn't get his heart rate back up. With my VBAC baby I had to do a lot of mental preparation in order to overcome the fears I had about the birth. I think that is key. You should really look into the past birth experience and confront your fears. Once you can do that and let go of those fears it makes it easier to approach a VBAC. Also having a good support team is key as well (of course being healthy with no risk factors is #1). I hired a doula for my VBAC. She helped me in overcoming my fears. I also took the Birthing From Within classes - I highly recommend. Anyway, my VBAC was amazing. We labored at home for the majority of the time and got to the hospital when my contractions were about 3 minutes apart and I had to really concentrate through them. I was only 2cm when I arrived though, so I was worried. But, the nurse had me walk around for an hour and then they monitored me & the baby a bit more. I was able to eat & drink as I pleased, and went to the restroom several times. Within 3 hours I was to 6cm, then 18 minutes later my daughter was born! All natural VBAC. The best experience in my life to date! I hope you get your VBAC and that it goes well for you.

Michelle - posted on 06/03/2012

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I also had a c-sec after not dialating past an 8. It was my first birth experience and very traumatic for me. BUT I did have 4 more children, ALL vaginal. My midwife assured me that it is ok to have a vaginal birth after a c-sec. It was great, as far as child birth goes. Everything went as it should. Don't worry, you will be fine.

Kinga - posted on 06/03/2012

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I have studied the books of professional midwives and they say that 32 hours for some women is normal time and that others take a lot longer. I labored for many days. If the babies heart beat is okay and you are okay then laboring for a long time is normal for you. Each woman's body is different and should not be compared to another woman's body. What the hospitals say or think is a reasonable amount of time to labor does not apply to every woman. It is only a matter of convenience for the hospital to labor for a certain time. But I think each woman should be treated as different as her body is.
My suggestion is to find a midwife who can deliver at home. They do a much better job helping those who have had C-sections. Hospitals revert to c-sections too often.
Listen to your body when you are in labor- your body will tell you.

Teralee - posted on 06/03/2012

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I attempted a vbac with my second but ruptured and lost my son. I lost most of my blood volume and almost died. I did have a midwife, a doula, dr.'s, delivered in a level III NICU hospital, etc. and they still were unable to catch it in time. Just be aware of the signs of rupture should you choose this route. It is rare - but is often deadly for mom and/or baby.

Cherie - posted on 06/03/2012

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Sections do not mess with your anatomy. Scar is really low and noone sees it. Recovery is a little painful. The best choice for me, although my boys made that decision for me. My opinion is as long as they are healthy the rest is peanuts.

Cherie - posted on 06/03/2012

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Usually if you had problems with cervical dilatation (anatomy challenges), the chance of it opening to complete are not that good. If it was any other reason (stressed baby,elective, mom with a temp) one could have success.

Sandy - posted on 06/03/2012

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I had a VBAC and had no issues. The recovery is SO much easier with a vaginal birth than a C-section. Highly recommend it!!

Colleen - posted on 06/03/2012

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I had 3 VBAC's after mine. Mine was because I was getting to stressed and the baby was getting stressed. All off my children after this were bigger. I even had to be cut further open as one of mine was there but his head was two big to come out.

Cherie - posted on 06/03/2012

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The successof a VBAC is depends on why you were sectioned. Not 100% but it does have relevance.

Clare - posted on 06/03/2012

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I had a vbac almost 3 months ago after having a c-section with my first. Everything went great. Good luck to you.

Pam - posted on 06/03/2012

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I had a little girl C section and four years later a little boy Vaginal birth no problems this was 26 years ago though

Cathy - posted on 06/03/2012

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I think that there are several issues that need to be taken into account -- your health, family history (although some doctors play that down), age (to an extent) and the father's family history.

In my family the women usually have big babies (9 lbs. or bigger). In my ex-husbands family some of the kids were born with big heads....both of these factors make a vaginal birth more difficult. There was no history of difficult pregnancies or births in my family.

I have 2 children, my son who is almost 18 (I had him when I was 35 years old) and a daughter (I had her when I was 40 years old).

With my son we planned a vaginal birth (I had no history of female problems and a very boring pregnancy). During labor my son went into distress and was delivered by c-section. The distress was caused by the umbilical cord being around his neck. In addition he was 10 lbs., 1 oz.

With my daughter, my doctor insisted that I could choose vaginal birth or c-section. The only thing that I wanted was for my daughter to be delivered safe & sound. Again I had a uneventful pregnancy other than the fact that my daughter was more active than my son. On my daughter's due date my doctor insisted that I proceed with being induced and have my daughter vaginally. After months of expressing that safety was the most important issue
I made the mistake in believing that my doctor was listening. My daughter went into distress and no one, not the doctor or the nurses, acted in time to save her. When the doctor finally requested a c-section, my daughter had already died. She was revived but she did not make it. My daughter was 9 lbs., 1 oz. and beautiful.

I'm not telling this to make you sad or for you to feel sorry for me. I'm telling this to you because I believe that how your child is taken care of before and after the birth is what is important, not what the latest "fad" is in what type of labor you choose. Do what it is best for the health and safety of your baby. Unless there is a life-threatening situation for you and your baby why take a greater risk in labor.

KINGS - posted on 06/03/2012

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Hi, I had a c-section for my first born son back in 1988 due to fetal distress. Then in 1995, when I went to give birth to my second son, they made me have vaginal birth. Believe me, I was begging for another c-section because I was afraid due to what happened with my first born, but they refused. I was in labor for 4 days with my second. Everything went well though. I was healthy & so was my second born son. So it was good for me too. I went through hell and back with that delivery but the healing time after vaginal birth was much quicker than with c-section. Both my boys are big now. My c-section son is married & made me a grandma, and my vaginal birth son is now 17 and doing great. I have two wonderful sons. I hope this helped you. Be blessed. :)

Nadia - posted on 06/03/2012

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I like many others had a csection...back in 1990 and hv had 3 successful vbacs...my first incision was in tge hairline area and unable to b seen by anyone so I can wear whatever comfortably...good luck!!!

Christina - posted on 06/03/2012

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I had a VBAC 15 months after an emergency c-section for failure to progess and high blood pressure. It was wonderful. However with my third child I was planning for a VBAC but was unable to. Each delivery is unique.

Cara - posted on 06/03/2012

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I had a VBAC with my second child. My OBGYN was extremely apprehensive about even letting me try it. He told me from the beginning that once I went into labor that I would have to consistently dilate 1 cm per hour or, no questions asked, I would go into the operating room for another C-section. Long story short, I was in labor for 5 1/2 hrs dilated as I should but started to have a lot of bleeding and because of my previous C-section, the prepped me in the O.R. for another C-section. I begged my Dr. to let me push one more time. Need less to say, that's all it took, my will and determination NOT to have another C-section at that moment. The recovery was so much quicker and easier with a vaginal birth than a c-section and I would choose a vaginal birth any day over the c-section. I must say though, that the Neonatal Nurse told me that she could not remember the last time they had a successful VBAC that did not end up being a c-section. The main reason is that Dr.'s are extremely hesitant to attempt VBAC's as they can be a liability and if they preform so many in a year their malpractice insurance goes up.

Melanie - posted on 06/03/2012

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I have had 2 HBAC and they were amazing and healing. As many have suggested here, your care provider is of key importance to success. In addition I would get a doula that you trust wholeheartedly, and who has VBAC experience, since you are planning a hospital birth. I can tell you that I had absolutely no fear or worry of uterine rupture or any complications during either of my VBAC labors. Good luck to you mama!

Randee - posted on 06/03/2012

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I delivered a 9 pound 6 ounce baby via VBAC. My first birth was vaginal second was cesarean and then the VBAC. I was worried sick about it, and we both came out healthy and happy. Vagianl birth is the way to go. The healing time is much shorter. Women were made to bare and birth children. Go mama!

Tracy - posted on 06/03/2012

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I've had 4 children, 1st c-section, 2nd natural VBack, 3rd natural VBack and finally the 4th - C-Section. As long as your C-section was not an emergency and had a low horizontal incision , you should be fine. The uterus incision must also be a low horizontal incision in order to have a VBack birth .
A piece of advice..labor will be slow to get going but you'll have no doubts When it does. If your in labor and they say don't push...don't ! Cause you will tear the flesh of your labia. Breath and let them make a incision you won't feel so the baby can come out with out needless pain later on. You also feel like you have to poo when contractions are powerful, that's the baby pushing on your bowel , but you are ready to push! God bless you with healthy babies :0)

Jennifer - posted on 06/03/2012

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I have a co-worker who had similar situation to your first child's birth and just had a successful VBAC last week. It was a long labor, but she did it. I would definitely recommend you taking a birthing class to prepare. Good luck!

Suzane - posted on 06/03/2012

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I can't speak to the VBAC following c-section, but can speak to the factor of not dialating and delivery choices. With my first daughter, I was in active labor for 55 hours and was not dialating. My Dr. suggested a c-section and I vehemenently refused as I wanted a "natural birth." Little did I know I put both myself and my baby in danger by insisting on a vaginal birth. (Thankfully, after resuscitation efforts, layers of stiches and over a week in the hospital, both my baby and I were able to return home.) Ten years later, when pregnant again, the Dr. wanted to schedule a c-section. Beleive it or not, I STILL wanted to try a vaginal birth. I made it very clear this time,however, that I was open to the c-section if things were not progressing as they should. Once again, my body refused to dialate, I underwent a c-section and delivered a healthy baby girl. My recovery from the c-section was much easier than my prior vaginal recovery and it really underscored for me that the method of delivery is not what's important, the health of mother and child is. I hope the best for you and your baby whatever you decide.

Nancy - posted on 06/03/2012

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Hi it worked well for me...no complications from it at all. Was very important for me because I had to be put under for my section because anesthesia messed up and then they had to knock me out after my epidural went horribly wrong. I feel there is nothing more special then to witness the birth of your child....good luck with your decision and so happy your husband is a good man...