has sex been uncomfortable for you most your sex life???

Nikki - posted on 04/05/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )

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hi most my life sex has been uncomfortable and now its even worse after i had my 2 kids a 2 year old and an 8 month old and it seems like i cant enjoy sex until i almost have an orgasm but sometimes if im really turned on it doesnt hurt at all with any position. does anyone else have this issue and know how to fix it? im about to lose my sex drive cause of this.

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Carey - posted on 04/06/2012

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It has been the same for me, and recently my doctor diagnosed uterine fibroids. She said that the pressure from these is likely causing painful intercourse among other symptoms. Good luck with your ultrasound and keep us informed!

Keli - posted on 04/05/2012

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ive always had a uncomftorable sex life. its like im small down there or something,but its worse after delivering my baby.

Tina - posted on 04/05/2012

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yeah I have the same problem I can't even face it at the moment. I also have a 21 month old and a 9 months old. I put it down to having c sections but I think there's more to it.

Keli - posted on 04/05/2012

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i have this problem too...

check this website out,

http://www.vaginismus.com/?gclid=CM65v9G...



i ordered the kit off there im anxious too try it and see if it can improve my problems.

Nikki - posted on 04/05/2012

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yea lubricant is not an issue with me at all lol i guess its just that i cant relax maybe i talked to the doc they said they were going to do a vaginal ultrasound to check me out n if they cant find anything that way they may have to do surgery to find out:(

Chrystal - posted on 04/05/2012

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Have you tried taking longer with foreplay before intercourse so your body has a chance to really get in the mood or adding lubricant; dryness may be what is cause the issue. If you haven't already I'd really suggest talking to your doctor sex shouldn't hurt and they may know of a way to help.