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Rhonda - posted on 12/10/2012 ( 21 moms have responded )

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my son has this girl he been dating since high school he left for basic training she cheated on him. my son being the person he is came back home and worked with her so they keep there little family together. my understanding is her mom took her car so she had to drop out of school. she was loving my son talking about getting married a few months go by she just flips around kicks my son out and now she text him and always want to start a fight about he would of never married her but he put a ring on her finger she took if off. my son loves this girl but i told him if she really loves and wants you shell come looking for you. i just want to know if im doing the right thing for my son. oh and all he is asking if she can can six months without having sex with people i keep telling him she wont do it buddy. please any comments would be great.

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Kelly - posted on 12/10/2012

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Well good luck to you both x she sounds like a gold digger no offence but I hope they can both get over it for their sons sake maybe also try and talk to her and see the other side of the story.

Kelly - posted on 12/10/2012

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As for @Lola you didn't offend me,I can't speak for Rhonda or Michelle but I can understand why you would think she was a man when it said her sons name and why you didn't like that.



Maybe don't let the mamma bear instinct kick in before you find out for sure next time (as hard as it is) lol xx

Rhonda - posted on 12/10/2012

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she find when my son giving her everything she wants but soon as he stop she flips and takes her ring off throws it at him kicks him out. sad part this time its because they were playing and she said when are you leaving my son being a smart butt said at the first of the year which he does for more training with the army. she kicked him out. which i know there two sides to every story. but she been putting him threw heck since she got pregnant when he stood by her unlike most kids would. but thank you all for the comments looking to read some more.

Kelly - posted on 12/10/2012

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Thank you. I really would like to see something for men on here as I do feel bad for the genuine ones that need help,because there are single dads out there and I understand the ones who need help dealing with things for example there daughters first period etc i get that and I feel bad when we have to turn them away,but rules are rules!



It will be nice to see a community for them! And I will do :)

Michelle - posted on 12/10/2012

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Kelly: We are in the process of setting something up just for men. Until then, just let us know when you see them around.



Michelle,

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Kelly - posted on 12/10/2012

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I know my baby will forever be my baby wether he is 1 or 100 lol! I understand

Kelly - posted on 12/10/2012

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@Michelle,yes I know I don't like how all of a sudden there are more and more men on the site Rhonda,it's a honest mistake but I can understand why a mum would be apprehensive (as I'm sure you can be) about sharing details about her child on a site that there could be a potential,dangerous man (not that you are I know that I'm referring to some men on the site)

Rhonda - posted on 12/10/2012

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my son just turn 20 even though he grown he still one of my babies. which im sure yous understand that. michelle i really didnt mean to make no trouble.

Kelly - posted on 12/10/2012

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Maybe you should tell him to say to her that she needs to grow up for her son! That he is trying his best to provide for his family! He grew up for his son and she needs to do the same!



Where there's a baby involved,she really needs to think about her choice! I know it must hurt you to see your two babies (son and grandson) going through this.Hopefully she can grow up and mature if not for her but for her family!

Rhonda - posted on 12/10/2012

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yes my oldest is michael l ellman who has all girls my middle is matthew e ellman and their father name michael e ellman my grandson is michael e ellman my middle loved his father he and his father were really close.

Michelle - posted on 12/10/2012

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You haven't said how old your son is. He really needs to get away from her though, she's very toxic by the sounds of it.



As far as your name goes: We have had an influx of men on the site recently and it gets very frustrating for us moderators. When you change your name it also sends up red flags so it's an honest mistake.

Rhonda - posted on 12/10/2012

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kelly leons i really dont know what to do for him because he care and he does everything he can for this girl. the army help my boy but i wish the girl would grow up and see that she not only hurting my son but my grandson to. but thanks

Lola - posted on 12/10/2012

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Again I apologise to Rhonda,Kelly and Michelle if I jumped the gun and offended anyone.



There has been a ton of men on here lately and I'm just on the look out being aware or the people o the site!

Lola - posted on 12/10/2012

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I don't really see how it's rude,if it came off that way I apologise.



I just wouldn't like a man to be on this site reading and giving me advice on my daughters nappy rash etc,I'm glad your son helps you and set it up for you.I came if really strong and I didn't intend to nor did I mean to offend u.

Rhonda - posted on 12/10/2012

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is this better for yous thats my grandson im holding his name michael too name after his grandfather that passed away and he belongs to my middle the one with the problem.

Kelly - posted on 12/10/2012

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Wow Lola,that's slightly rude isn't it?

Once again Rhonda I am sorry! I hope you find a answer that helps you in your situation,I would help you but I'm not sure as my son is only 15 months old and has never had a girlfriend lol.

Rhonda - posted on 12/10/2012

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my son set up my account for me and you want me to name them to you. my oldest is michael ellman my second is matthew ellman and third is kyle huddleston. yes my son matthew set up the account for me sorry not everybody knows how to use a computer . i get on here to ask for help because of this problem with my son.

Lola - posted on 12/10/2012

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Don't feel sorry Kelly,



'Rhonda' are you a tranny? Because your name was just Micheal like 20 minutes ago that's why I didn't answer your post!



Let yous 'son' if there even is a son make his own choices as he is apparently 20 he is old enough,to make his own choices don't stick your nose where it's not wanted and don't change your name to make u look like a women when 20 minutes ago your name was Micheal and you had 1 child listen who was supposedly 20.I was going to not report you and to see if someone else would spell you,but I smell a troll!

Kelly - posted on 12/10/2012

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Oh my goodness @Rhonda! I am so sorry,I went to click on a post from a man and I accidentally clicked on yours,I feel like such a fool.I hate when men come on this site and clearly breach the rules! My apologies.

Kelly - posted on 12/10/2012

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This is circle of mums your a man,although you have a issue find another site,this one isnt for you this is a clear breach of rules and if you dont deactivate your account ill have to report u.

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