hi friends i want to share something and need your suggestions as well,i have been married for the last 4 years and now i am 6 months pregnant with my second child, my problem is that my husband is not at all romantic and he is not even interested in sex,we do sex once in a month or sometimes in two months,and it happens only when i go to him,he never comes to me and this is what happening with me from last 3and half years,i am good looking and doing everything what he needs,but this thought makes me really frustrated when i think about this that why he is like this,is there anyone else who is suffering from the same problem.
Join Circle of Moms
Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.Join Circle of Moms
Tina - posted on 07/10/2012
Is he on any type of medication. Just wondering because certain medications can effect a mans sex drive such as medication for mental illness like depression, schizophrenia etc. And also take Louise's advice. I'd quite the opposite in my relationship. I'm the one that's not interested partially because I've had 2 kids via c section so it's a bit painful. But also stress. I'm on baby mode most of the time overtired and stressing over things. In a mans case if he is stressed over money, another baby. That can do it. Sometimes it's a little overwhelming for men. Do you trust him. Is there anything else that is bothering you?
Louise - posted on 07/10/2012
Some men simple dont have a big sex drive and dont feel the need to have sex very often. This is sometimes down to stress or relationship worries. Ask your husband point blank if there is a problem that he wants to talk about. Give him time to answer you. He may not want to talk about it at all so then you need to write a letter and give it to him telling him how you feel. Unloved, undesireable and pushed away. He needs to know that it is getting you down because if he does not know he can do nothing about it.