How can I not produce hcg and be pregnant? Please moms give me some advice I don't want to go to bed crying and anxious again it's killing me :(

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Please share your stories or any advice if you have any familiarity with having no hcg show up in blood or urine until 2 or 3 trimester. Idk what to do anymore I've been through this four times first I miscarried second I miscarried third I carried 42 weeks and was induced and fourth last year was etopic. I know my body very well now but doctors are convincing me im crazy and not pregnant also my husband won't believe me until I show a positive blood or urine. I'm depressed and don't know how to handle this. Please help share your experience has anyone ever had no hcg show up before and then mentally convinced yourself your not pregnant cry your eyes out then months later find out all those test and doctors were wrong!?

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I called today and they told me they are going to see me thursday and for me to ask the on for an ultrasound that day. The receptionist made me cry she was like you're not pregnant but okay I'll confirm your appointment. At this point I just want to know what's going on and why I have my usual pregnancy symptoms and a few new ones like running a low grade fever since two weeks ago and a cramping a lil but not bad. They kept telling me I wasn't sick and didn't have a virus. I'm soo dizzy this time around I can't even drive all I want to do is lay in bed and I fall asleep every afternoon which only happens when I'm pregnant. So as much of a blessing it would be for them to say yup you are I see a baby lol I'm soo frustrated I just want to feel better. :( you ladies are great . I don't understand why the doctors never take you serious when your not textbook case . I also don't know if im prepared if they do an ultrasound and say nope no baby but we don't know why your feeling sick and dizzy all the time. Lol uhh u hate this. I read somewhere that some other women have had nearly no hcg and didn't find out until an ultrasound. Im glad I'm not the only one .

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Lol the doc told me to buy a hunch of dollar tree test and just test away for the next couple of months and he did a quant test with all four pregnancies and I kid you not they were all o hcg negative. The only way I found out I was pregnant with number one was when I blacked out and was found by a neighbor in a puddle of blood and rushed to er . I misscarried. The second I went to er with severe cramps and they did blood said nope not pregnant no hcg Ianthe quantum but did an ultrasound which showed I was two months and misscarrying. Then with my son my obgyn laughed at ne and refused to treat me. 3 months later I'm in urgent care with severe heart burn and my blood at 3 months! Finally said positive. But i bleed that entire pregnancy. Then most recently the etopic wasn't confirmed without an ultrasound in the er the first ultrasound said nope not pregnant then I went back and got sicker and they did another one and was like oops lol now I'm military and they wont see me until I have a pow test and what hurts worse is my husband doesn't believe me again. I hope to prove them wrong for a fifth time lol. I just am baffled at how hcg reads o when in fact we are pregnant. :)

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If you have a known history of this... any good doctor would order you an ultrasound asap.

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I can't sleep. I keep everytime I feel a symptom I just tell myself there's no baby in there. I mean my prior pregnancies I never had a quant blood until 3 or 4 months so I could have had a low hcg but still had some this time I had a quant blood the other day and it's 1 hcg so maybe it's a cyst who knows it just baffles me. I wish I had easy pregnancies lol

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Does your doctor know you have a history of miscarriages and ectopic pregnancies? If not you should make him aware. Maybe get an early ultrasound to ensure it's not ectopic again.

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Ok well the ultrasoynds next week but i think its just a cyst but now i have a new problem. My 3 year old was witg his dad for the past 8 days and abput two weeks ago he had hand foot and mouth disease and when i picked him up we ended up in er at 3 am where a doctor chewed me out fOr not taking hin to docs sooner and he didnt understand i didnt have him if i had and i new he was coughing and running a fever i would have took him sooner but i had no idea! Now my son has an apt tomorrow and me and his dad are finally on speaking terms but im very upset and dont know how to say why didnt u take him to doctors sooner?! Without starting an argument.

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I would have to agree with the other ladies go to your dr and get an ultrasound. I thought this was a one time thing, like mine was, but now that I know more of the story I feel the same way. Go to your dr asap to set your worries aside. =)

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When I was pregnant with Jake I didn't have enough horomones until I was 8 weeks pregnant to come up with a positive pregnancy test. I got the blood test to confirm my suspisions at 6 weeks. I would talk to your doctor about a blood test because then they could look at the actual levels of hormone in your blood. Most tests are sensitve to 25 -100, If you have a lower sensitive test it could be testing at 100 (doller store test usually detect at 50). But just remember it doubles every 36 to 48 hours. So if your still negative in a week I'd say ask for a quantitive blood test.

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