how do i get my daughter back from her paternal grandmother as she refuses 2 hand her back over??

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Bobbi Jean - posted on 11/18/2012

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They have taken illegal custody of your child. Call the police--again-and go get your child. Call 911 if you have to--press charges for kidnapping--sounds like it to me. It doesn't matter if it is late. Don't worry about inconviening anyone--they stole your baby!

If that doesn't work, hire an attorney, call the media, contact social services, and fight for your child. The longer you wait, the weaker your case will look! After you get your child back--get a restraining order until you can get the grandparental rights of these people permanently discontinued!

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/18/2012

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WHAT?!? The cops didn't help? I would be calling them again. Bring the birth certificate and say you want your baby back. If that doesn't work, call your local news. They will be very interested in this story. And WHY would you let her have your baby if there is a chance she won't give her back to you? Stop letting her be alone with the baby. Call your ex, and tell him what is going. Contact the cops again, and explain that this is your child, and you want her back home. Bring the certificate. Then if they do nothing, call the news and tell them that the cops won't help get your baby back from a family kidnapping.

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Renee - posted on 04/21/2013

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Hi I'm 31 years old with 4 kids who i love very much.I have a 8year old son who has Autism and he lives with my mother,because when we moved out she would not let me take him.My mother thinks she has all the rights to him but she don't becuase I live in Nova Scotia where grandparents have no rights to kids.I want to bring him home with us but she says she will take me to court to get costody.

What should I do?

thanks

Ashley - posted on 11/20/2012

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file charges for kidnapping. dont let the police tell you she doesnt have to give you your baby. hound them til they get her! my nieces mom took off with her when she was about 7 months old, we found out she was living on the streets and have meth addicts who cooked meth and sold it watching my niece. when we found out, my brother in law got a lawyer and got temporary custody until court. as soon he got that, we were out 3 days and nights in a row going to all these places we heard about where she might be. when the babysitter answered the door a 4 in the morning we pushed our way through and searched the house, didnt even call the cops til we were already inside. you cant just let people take your kid! if you do, then you dont want or need her that bad. as her mom, you need to take control and get your baby back, no matter what time of day it is! i didnt sleep for 3 days when we were looking for my niece, but it was well worth it cuz we got her back, and she has been safe ever since.

Laura - posted on 11/18/2012

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my head is all over the place its very upsetting that there are such evil people in the world that would do this 2 mums its not fair on the lil one she must b missing me like mad :(

Laura - posted on 11/18/2012

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yes i do badly tomorow coz its half twelve at night she b sleeping. but come 7 ill be on the phone straight away or i will even go up there and knock the door down myself.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/18/2012

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I just would not prolong trying to get her back. Maybe just call the police station and explain the situation and ask what can be done. The longer you wait, the more difficult it will be to unclench that womens grasp from your baby. That would make me very uncomfortable. i would not be able to sleep at night if ANYONE denied me my own child.

Laura - posted on 11/18/2012

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am 28 years old and the dad is 27 but like a child he is .. i do have my family mother,farther and sisters helping me out.. as soon as i get her back they wont see her again well am not a nasty person am very fair ,2 soft my mother says.. but i got 2 stand up for myself and my daughter now, i will do that sounds a good idea, if i keep that woman out of my life i can prove 2 people that am a good mum and the things she says is a load of crap!! my family and friends knew this was going 2 happen.. what it is because her twin daughters have moved 2 australia she bored nothing 2 do so she wants 2 take over and have the mother role back.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/18/2012

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TOMORROW?!? WHY are you going to wait until tomorrow? WTH? You want your kid back or not?

Laura - posted on 11/18/2012

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no they didnt god knows what she been saying 2 them making things up making me look like the bad one.. i let her have her coz since the last time evrything was going good between us.., i rang the babys dad told him whats happend all he had 2 say was am working leave me alone typical man.., and said if we get back together things will be ok i think he tripping.. itsw one fight that woman will lose ill call them again and ill will do that 2moro then :)

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/18/2012

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I would NEVER let this women watch your baby alone again. Never in her home. Only in public places. Or in your home, and you can completely control the situation. How old are you? Is your mother around to help? Father? Can you all go to her house with the cops?

Laura - posted on 11/18/2012

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am not leeting it go this time she has done it before last time me and the babys dad came 2 an agreement.. but coz the fact now that he hasnt botherd we have had a huge row she has taken it upon herself 2 keep her away from me.. saying am a shit mother and when i gone up there she refuses 2 open the door.. i have phoned the police they went up there and said its ok for her 2 stay there till i have spoken 2 a solicitor but i cant see why i should wait coz she is mine and that she dont have rights at all

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/18/2012

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What is she saying or doing when you go to get your baby?

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/18/2012

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I just posted on your other post also. I would call the cops if she would not freely give me my child. That is not ok. Do not just let this go.

Laura - posted on 11/18/2012

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no she dont.. my ex partner is on the birth certificate but he dnt care, think its quite sad that she would keep a lil baby away from her own mother. am constantly put down by her in front of ppl making me look like am doing a bad job but i know diffrent.. just dnt know what 2 do :(

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