Nikki - posted on 12/23/2011 ( 111 moms have responded )
Our family is pretty open about sex...We are open about questions, and we enagage our children to know about themseves as they go through pueberty; also that it is natural and healthy. This being said..my 15 year old son is constantly doing it. His sister who is 11 just walked in on him while he was completley naked and masterbating .
I am upset over the fact that we have talked to him about appropriate time and place. In the bathroom when the door is locked, in his bedroom after his sister has gone to bed. Latley thats all he seems to be doing if I don't let him play video games 24/7. Latest incident , he was completely naked at 6:30 at night at the edge of his bed with a barbie in his hand and his penis in the other.
His sister asked him for something and then she walked in the door. Then I came down the hallway and knocked on his door. I asked him what he was doing and he said"nothing", so I walked in the door. He still is role playing like playing cops, or pirates and thats normally what "nothing" means. My big complaint is that after I walked in on him he yelled at me and was dispesctful to me. I reminded him that he knows that it is to be done in private. Being that his sister is 11...he knows how I feel about this subject. I do not want his sister to see that. Then my husband gets involved and says that I embarrassed him. The disrespect and yelling at me wasn't addressed until a big fight broke out between us. Anyone have any helpful tips on this ?