Amber - posted on 04/28/2012 ( 40 moms have responded )
The Bio Mom of my husband's 9yr old son isn't very cooperative in letting him see his son. He calls when it is his weekend and she says " he doesn't want to talk to you " or " we already have plans" or "he is old enough to make his own decisions and doesn't want to come". This hurts my husband very badly and he has always been there for his son. We only live 18 miles away and he has tons of family that loves him and wants to see him also. The bio mom has always had hard feelings towards him and I since they divorced and he and I married 8 years ago. I have always made an effort to stay out of the picture knowing she doesn't like me ( I have 2 wonderful boys myself ages 16, 22) and do not talk to her because in the past she has been very negative in front of all children involved. She has also remarried and has another child and the situation "appears" in my eyes as though she wants to paint this picture of a perfect family with her husband and their son and my husband's son by badmouthing my husband saying he has no interest in him and is a bad father because he left them. It's a very hurtful situation to us and without spending $$$$$ we don't have to go to court with lawyers, how in the world does he get to see him? He has ignored her rantings on the phone, asked nicely, begged, and continues to this day to stay nice however hateful she is and calls every weekend despite her hatefulness. Please help us! anything at this point after nine years is helpful.. Thanks.