How shall i stop myself from yelling at my babies............

Maria - posted on 09/21/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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How shall i stop myself from yelling at my babies, who will only respond to me only after i will shout at the top of my voice or finaaly spamk them; please help me, whenever i am depressed or quarrelled specially with my husbnand, then its very normal for me. my husband doesn't sleep with in the same room ash he says that our kids dont let him to, but in my society i have seen that nearly 99% of husbands sleep with thie wives and they don't have a problem if thir babies wake up in the night. this thing kills me and i am always angry with him about this, i have spoken to him as well many times, but he never agrees aout this.anyway, the problem here is that i really dont want to take out my depression and my anger on my little kids, that i always do. please help me how can i stop myself. i want them to grow in a healthy environment, and want them to learn good from me, but i feel all my patience has gone, and make my kids victim of all my deprevations. currntly i cant afford to c my doctor, later maybe yes, but then i know it will be too late for me. please help me, i am always negative, depressed and angry.

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Vicki - posted on 09/21/2012

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In my opinion you should seek medical help for your depression, sometimes its hard for some to do things on their own, you say you cant affored to but my question to you is can you afford not to? Councellors can help you deal with your reason and or cause for depression teach you tools on how to deal and cope with situations. Maybe also go to a natural food store and talk to somebody there about natural supplements for depression? You need to find a way to be pro active into changing your behavour, yelling at your kids isnt healthy!

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Maria - posted on 09/24/2012

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thanx alot ofr all those who gave me advices n ideas....love u all...,i think i wil go to c d doc, wen i return bak to my home in 4 weeks,whr i might afford one....

Salina - posted on 09/21/2012

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well i have 4 kids and i was in the same boat as u i would yell and i found they play up more when i was stressed or had issues with things in my life i can see that your husbund wont sleep in the same bed well thats not right and to me it looks as tho he might allso be very stressed out and weather he talks to u about this i think he should if he doesnt already do so .. the kids will get worse they now no better then u yelling i know ive been there and mine are better when im not stressed us moms do have to have some time to ourselves weather it be just an hr or 2 alone time it helps us get rid of some of the stresses we have and ye sometimes we can have that and still feel uptight and sit and wunder why they are the way they are but i do blame me most with this as i would yell all the time and i noticed they were just like well mommy is just gonna give us more attention if we do this i made a point of giving them more attention for 2 hours a day just doing games reading playing exc and it worked they respect me more they are happier and they know that if they play up they missout on there 2 hrs of play or one on one time i can do this with the 4 babys or all at once i hope that u and ur partner reslove this if things dont change u will grow apart as this has allso happend to me with the baby daddy and we are no longer together i am now with a new man in my life and he is grate with the kids and we no longer have the no sleeping togetha issue as he loves me and will help me with babys

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