Darnisha - posted on 06/15/2010 ( 1 mom has responded )
Hi ladies im so relieved i finally started the paperwork for my son Eli's dads child support.I jus need help staying strong for my son when it comes down to it. I was shocked that when we went to the meeting the first thing he asked for was a DNA test(so now we have to go back next month for them to tell him he is the daddy lol) then a few moments later he asking me can he hold him. I said "You'll be alright" lol and then everytime the case worker left the room he would say stuff like "im not mad" or "I jus wanted to see my son when i wanted to not when you want me to" im tryin not to make enemies with him but he is so difficult because i want Eli to have two parents even if we are never getting back together. He also hasnt seen him in 2months and won't bring diapers or milk ANYTHING. His dad tries to get under my skin all the time. I need help for when it comes down to it i wanna get everything straight without blowing up so i can show his dad that he doesn't have controll over me and the decisions that i make for Eli. My son deserves more and i want to give it to him.