Caroline - posted on 02/21/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
I've spent the past year going through divorce. I share 2 beautiful children will a man that i was married to for 9 and a half, a relationship of 13 years in total. I choosed to leave the marriage, I invested the pass 10 years being a stay at home mom.I 've had the pleasure and satifaction watching both of my children grow up, to be the great person they are today. My son which is my oldest (11yrs old)has had a difficult pass year trying to adjust to the major changes in his live. My daughter is adjusting well. Tyler my son has made a deicion to live with his father. I didn't except at first,but looking back at the year that i've had with my child, my child that i bearly recongized any more.I decided to let him live with his father,I have also decided that Tyler will spend a weekend a month a my place for now(just moved in with his father, a week ago)
After being separted/divorced/single and have returned into the work force in the passed year and i have also meet someone, who also has 2 children.
My son isn't cooping well with my new boyfreind and his children. I'm not use to my son attracting negative attention. My question would be how far do we go to accomodate my sons need when he'll be coming over for the weekend?