Catherine - posted on 06/08/2011 ( 10 moms have responded )
For some time, we have struggled with my oldest being very selfish and unaware or uncaring of others. She is now on her own, but as our oldest, I worry about the example this sets for her sisters. They're not crazy about her right now either. How do you address this without alienating, when you feel she has no ability or desire to be caring toward others?