Livian - posted on 09/11/2012 ( 143 moms have responded )
Hi there, I have a huge problem. I am married for the second time and I have 2 kids from my previous marriage age 21 and 14. I have 3 year from this marriage. My problem is that my husband hates my 21 year old. They are not in speaking terms. My husband is always trying to intimidate my kids with his load voice. He accuses me of spoiling my kids and calls my oldest son a diliquent, and a monster. My kids dad passed away and thy really only have me. We do not have external family support. My son who is 21 does not drink, smoke or do anything unethical. He usually visits his friends in the evening to steer clear from my husband. When my son watches tv in the second lounge my husband will say things like "the tv is so loud, cant you put it soft" He told me last night that he my son is a monster and unruly and disrespectful. So i asked what has my son done to me for him to think this and then he refers me to the tv being loud.. It just seems that my husband may have a heart attack from his resent for my son. My son used to work with , then I left. He alos left to take up new employment and then he lost his job. Because i am now helping him to look for a job, now that is a problem.. I got my son to temp at the compnay i am working for and he accuses me of being my sons friend , and that i spoil him and i made him out to be a monster. i dont know waht he expect of me. that is my child and I have to help my child while he finds his feet. .