ASHLEY - posted on 01/08/2012 ( 51 moms have responded )
My husband is great he works and I am a stay at home mom. We have two boys...my problem is he almost immediately falls asleep after work. He eats dinner and then falls asleep (he is 28, i'm 23). He also has a very low sex drive. We are going to the doctor about it in two weeks. He is overweight but has been a big guy our entire relationship so its nothing new. He tells me he believes he has a medical problem but I feel he is just bored of me. He says it hurts his feelings that I think that. I don't know what to do it lowers my self esteem. I quit initiating sex because he turns me down so often I just couldn't take it anymore and bought a vibrator. What I really want is to be intimate with my husband again. I'm so sad. For example today he got off work at noon drove to my uncles house and spent the entire afternoon drinking beer with the guys... he got home asked what was for dinner and fell asleep @6pm! HE WAS FALLING ASLEEP IN HIS FOOD! I am so sick of this but I don't want to get mad if it is truly medical but its hard not to take it personally. He says he is tired all the time and says it has nothing to do with me and he loves me more than anything. Anyone else dealing with this?