i a 14 yr old girl and im 2 weeks pregnant and i need he

Casandrah - posted on 11/11/2012 ( 16 moms have responded )

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i am two weeks pregnant and i dont know how to tell anyboy becaues im a really shy person

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Casandrah - posted on 11/11/2012

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im going to talk to my mom tomorrow hopefully about this and i dont want an abortion i dont bealive in it and i was thinking about an adoption but my mom cant have kids anymore since she had cancer and we were thinking about adopting a child but now i dont think we have to and thank you i know there being ass holes and losing most of my friends is better than killing an unborn child

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/11/2012

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YOU are the one that ultimately has to live with whatever decision you make.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/11/2012

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Well, your friends an unsupportive asshole, and don't be surprised if she tells everyone you are pregnant.



If you don't want to have a baby, abortion is one way. So is adoption. And also the alternative to keep. Talk with your mother about this. You are awfully young, and hopefully she is open minded enough to discuss your options with you. No one should tell you what you HAVE to do. You ultimately make the decision.

Lacye - posted on 11/11/2012

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In all honesty, whether you get an abortion or you keep the baby is completely your decision. You are the only person who can decide that. Apparently your friend isn't a very good friend if she is putting you down like that. I do suggest though that you tell your parents. The sooner, the better.

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I got pregnant at 15 and I kept it but an abortion is always an alternative. You are young and hopefully you learned your lesson like me

Casandrah - posted on 11/11/2012

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i hvae a question, should i get an abortion because my best friend told me that i wont be a good mom and all this other crap and its bringbrining me down so bad into tears and i am thinking about it ...

Casandrah - posted on 11/11/2012

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yeah i havent talked to him hes been trying to get my attention he lives down the street and he goes to my school and i just ignore him and walk away and i do think its imporant to tell my mom because i need to be healthy and to have the unborn baby healthy as well

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/11/2012

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Well you would get an ultrasound and you can ask for a print out.



Unfortunately your bf can still deny it. But that is what dna test are for when after the baby is born. I would recommend not talking with him any more, and totally tell your mom. Seeing the doctor during your pregnancy is very important for you and baby.

Casandrah - posted on 11/11/2012

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i have and he told me i was a lieing B**** and now i need to tell my mom so we can start making doctor apointments so i can get a thing saying that i am and give it to him

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/11/2012

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That is a tough one for sure. The sooner you tell her the better. i really hope she is a good support for you in whatever you decide. The longer you wait to tell her, the harder it will be. I can promise you that. Have you told the father of the baby yet?

Casandrah - posted on 11/11/2012

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thanks and yeah im very shy i stick to myself i don't talk to my parents and i been trying to talk about babies and stuff and now i just give up and about the tell them i havent told them yet and i am scared shitless telling them but when i tell my mom atleast i will be alright cause shes support me. i just dont know how to tell her tho

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/11/2012

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Being shy has nothing to do with approaching your parents and telling them you are pregnant, but being scared shitless of your parents will have everything to do with it. Hopefully you have talked with them and received support. As for other people, just wait on that. Usually after 3 months you tell people...because frankly you will not be able to hide it forever. Plus you are past the point of typical miscarriages. Good luck.

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