i am 19 years old i have a 5month old daughter. the father hsa only been on the scene since she was 2 half months old. we had her dna since then he has seen her he had her for a day, she came back to me with red marks on top of her legs, marajuna on her coat and she smelt of it , none of her bottles had been used and her nappy was ringing wet with urine and faeces. hhe attacked me outside mediation and him and his step dad threatened ti kick my door down and take my child and if i ggot in there way i would get hurt. his family are very imtimadating and over powering . can i get sole custody of my daughter????

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Linda Marie - posted on 01/20/2013

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he has admitted to me nsome his friends he does not want to see our daughter he is only making out he does so his family can see her. i dont want them anywhere near my baby, but have no solid proof he said it :(

~♥Little Miss - posted on 01/19/2013

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Call the cops if they do that again. Period. Go to a lawyer and start doing this properly. If they want visitations, let the court know what has been going on and get supervised visits.

Jodi - posted on 01/19/2013

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I'm sorry, that didn't answer my question. Does the order you have only state he can't be near YOU, or does it state he can't be near the child? If it states he can't be near the child, then no, you don't have to let him near the child. if it doesn't state that, he could legally take you to court and request visitation. However, having said that, you have documented evidence of this occurring. You need to keep documenting EVERYTHING, and then I would actually suggest you take the initiative to see a lawyer and apply for full custody. The chances are he will request visitation, and it is LIKELY that a judge will grant supervised visitation if you push for it with your evidence of why he shouldn't be alone with the child. No-one can say what the judge will do, but the best way to protect your child is to start by talking to a lawyer.

Linda Marie - posted on 01/19/2013

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its a non-molistation ordder because he assulted me i am not handing her over i have stopped him seeing her but my concern is he takes me to court and get my daughter that is why i have asked advice in weather i can get full residence of my child

Jodi - posted on 01/19/2013

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So you have an order saying he is not allowed near your child? Is this a restraining or domestic violence order? If you have something from the courts saying he is not allowed near his daughter, why are you handing her over?

Linda Marie - posted on 01/19/2013

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i have actually got 2 court orders out against him he is not allowed near me or my young daughter. i kept a diary of the days he and his family see her and the times i have written downn everything even all the times i have had to ring the police. i now have to go to court next week about the court orders so he can defende himself. he has admitted he dont actually wont nothing to do with our daughter he is only making out he wants to see her so his family can see her!!! his family are bullies and have had to make complaints to the authrorities about them but i feel really really guilty for my daughter as i was in the same situation with my mother and father and i grew to hate my mum and i dont want that to happen

Krystle - posted on 01/18/2013

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uNtil the court system denies his visitation the police will allow home to take her for this visitation its cruel but that's all they can do without a court order the courts do have places where the parents can exchange the child in a neutral environment indlstead of their homes you must go and fill emergency order

Cecilia - posted on 01/18/2013

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on top of the pictures that krystie suggested, the clothes she wears to his house. don't wash them. Put them in a bag and put them away. This way the court can see and smell the condition she was in when returned. Take pictures of everything including the diaper. have your cam show the date stamp on there. it will matter. Saddly to prove his neglect she would have to go back to his house. If you can prevent that, do it.

If he shows up at your door, call the cops. Do not open the door for him.

Krystle - posted on 01/18/2013

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100% yes you can and it is possible to have his visitations with her be supervised and if they are threatening you the courts can even involve a third party (other person) to be present when exchanges of the child take place also if there is proof of physical marks and neglect document it with pictures dates,and times you may even be able to press charges on him if you called the police but don't under any circumstances allow yourself to be bullied by him or his family or they will think they can continue to do so and it may end up endangering your daughter go to your county court house they all ave free legal help there and tell them everything they can help don't give up it may take a few trys to get results. But for your daughters sake keep at it don't give up

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