Lana - posted on 02/05/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )
I am 3 months postpartum and nursing exclusively. I tore during delivery and I can't have sex at all because it hurts. The BIGGER issue is that the thought of it repulses me. Oral even grosses me out! Giving or receiving. I'm at my wits end with it! Hubby feels unattractive and I'm having trouble forcing myself to do it. I understand not wanting to have sex is normal, but should it literally gross me out? Another question concerning postpartum. Is it normal to feel as if you have ruined your life by having a baby? No judgement please i'm concerned my feelings aren't normal.