Jennifer - posted on 04/29/2012 ( 61 moms have responded )
I am single mom and I can’t control my 17yo twin daughters as they don’t feel shame or anything like it in being seen nude by their younger brothers who are 13 and 14, they always let it go by saying “they are kids”. They both are good girls, study hard, always got A+ their teacher never caomplaint anything bad about them, they attend guests never make me feel embarrassed infront of other, they also take good care of their brothers, make them do their homework, help them with the studies, just like they the are mothers of the boys and they were like this since they were kids. The only thing I worried about is how long they gonna be like this, I mean, they never tell thier brothers to go out, when they are changing clothes, it looks ok when they were kids but as they still get dressed and undressed even their brothers in room. I thought of getting them seprate room but they refuse and said they got enough privacy. They let their brothers to use toilet even if they are in shower, as both never closes bathroom door when they are in shower, I told both my sons to never go in bathroom when any of their sister is in shower not even if they have to pee but my daughters, they say “how cruel of you, you want them to hold their pee because their sister is in shower, comeon mom its painfull you know, they are little brothers.”
They never hesitate to pull off their towel, when they come out of shower even in the presence of their brothers, they even never cover themselves up front if the boys accidentally seen naked any of them.
I used to bathe them together till they were some 7 and the boys were 3and 4. But even when they grew older they never feel anything like shame or embarrassment on being their brother seen them naked, during the summers they both used to get in tub with their brothers even when the are 15 and the boys are 11 and 10 although the boys were in their underpants but both my girls go nude. They do sleep in same room though on seprate beds, they have got two beds, one shared by boys and other by girl. They are turning 18 next month and they don’t feel like they need a bit privacy.
I don’t want to say that word but I am afraid. What should I do with my girls. Is everthing alright with my girls?