Mazy - posted on 05/24/2012 ( 23 moms have responded )
About a month ago my BIL came to visit for two weeks. I was surprised with the news about the visit 2 days before his arrival since Hubs "forgot" to tell me. While he was here, Hubs convinced him to move from FL to CT, so he's been LIVING with us for the past 2 weeks, that's 4 consecutive weeks with a teenager sleeping on my couch. While in FL he was into drugs (mostly just pot), had a tough time keeping jobs, was very depressed, etc. Hubs felt that the relocation would give him better opportunities & be a better influence. Hubs has even said that he could live here for a few MONTHS if he wanted to...it's pretty much an open ended invitation. I am all for the restart, I really am. HOWEVER, I am due to have baby #3 in about 10 weeks. To top it all off, MIL & FIL have invited themselves up from FL for the birth & plan on staying in our home since hotels are too expensive. We currently live in a 2 bedroom, 900 sqft home that has three adults & two children...so I have no clue where I'll put two more adults & I don't know how long everyone plans on staying here. I just want to be left alone to focus on getting myself & household ready for this baby's arrival, but instead I'm stressing on where folks will sleep & how on Earth I'll afford enough groceries to cook for them all! How can I get rid of them without angering my whole family?