I think my 6 month old son who passed away in October 2012 may be trying to communicate with us...?

Kasandra - posted on 05/12/2013 ( 59 moms have responded )

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So, I have racked my brain, done research, spoken with some people, and now asking you. Is it possible that my 6.5 month old baby boy is trying to communicate with myself, his big sister, and his father? He passed away in October 2012 from accidental positional asphyxia in our old place of residence...(my sons father's mother still lives there) Allow me to explain my experiences as to why I believe this...

*My daughter (who is 4) has dreams about her brother constantly. Sometimes good, some bad...

She has told me numerous times that Jace came and visited her in her dream.

The VERY FIRST time she had mentioned that she had dreamed about him this was our conversation.... "mommy, Jace likes Heaven." "Ya? How do u know that?" "He told me" she says... "When did he tell you that?" "He visits me in my dreams mama.... He says to tell you that he loves you and that he wipes your tears when you cry. He said its okay mama, and you don't have to cry for him, he's always by your side"
Now, at that moment I lost it... I had NEVER cried in front of my daughter till that moment. I tried so hard to be strong for her so that she wasn't afraid to cry to me if she had needed to... So how would she know that I cried all the time?

She now says things like, "Mommy I saw Jace last night, he says he loves and misses his mommy and daddy and sister and that he will visit again soon."

I'll ask her generic questions like why she finally cleaned up her mess when i had been asking for the past 5 hours... she would answer with cuz Jace said he'll be upset if I keep not listening.

She misses her brother very much, sleeps with his blanket, and his stuffed elephant... talks about him as if he was here still. "Jace said I'm not allowed to come to heaven to see him cuz I have to get old first"

Now, the weirdest thing that has ever happened to me was when I was working:

So I am a server. I see a ton of people every day. On Easter 2013 I was sat my last table of the evening... It was a older lady with dark clothing on, stringy, frizzy, dark brown hair with some gray... in all honesty she looked like a witch... So my first thought was, oh great my last table of the day is gonna be fun... sarcasm.... I approached the table introduced myself and asked for her drink order... and all she did was stare at me as if I was speaking a foreign language... I said "Ma'am, do you know what you would like to drink?" she kinda snapped outta it and said "oh yes pardon me, sweet tea." I slowly backed up turned around and went to get her beverage.. She never took her eyes off of me.. I placed her drink on the table in front of her and said "Ma'am are you ready to order" Again, all i got was a blank stare, and then another "I'm so sorry" She then told me what she wanted... Before I went to turn away the says to me "Miss, may I ask you something?" "sure".... She then said, "Please forgive me, I do not ever do this but... does the name Jace mean anything to you?" My heart about dropped.. "I said, umm why would you ask me that" she says, "My name is Jean and I am a medium... I own a shop in ***********" (Near a town in my area.) She said "When I walked through the doors of this restraunt I felt the strongest presense and when they sat me at your table and you walked over here, I knew the spirit behind my feeling was steming from you. This sense that I had was so strong that I had to ask you about the name that I kept hearing." I told her "yes that name means quite a lot to me.. That is my sons name." She said "hmm that is strange, i very rarely get infants that try to communicate" I was shocked that she knew even those two little details. She started telling me things about my son and my daughter and his father that a stranger would NEVER guess. She also said that Jace visits Madi (my daughter) in her dreams to make sure that she is okay... Because of the bond that Madi and her brother had/have he will continue to communicate with Madi, and us until Madi wants to close that part of her mind. She wanted me to come see her.. myself, jace's father and Madi... i have been nervous and have not done it yet....

I was just wanting to see if anyone else has had any dreams/ any situations similar to this?? Whats your opinion?

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Vanessa - posted on 05/13/2013

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My son used to lay in his cot and giggle and wave up into the corners of his bedroom - i believe in angels. Your daughter will never lose the bond, but I'm tipping as she gets older that her mind will close off and instead of messages in dreams, it'll be a warm feeling or a smell or something that will remind her.
No need to go to a medium - Jace is fine xo

Roshen - posted on 05/14/2013

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i am so sorry for yours and your precious family's loss Kasandra. I can't even begin to imagine your pain... but i do know that your little boy is in heaven, safe in the arms of our Saviour Jesus and one day, you will meet with him again. Until then, you and the rest of your family are on earth and he is in heaven and he cannot communicate with you. Please be careful of 'familiar spirits' who manifest themselves as our loved ones in order to draw you into dangerous places. I believe that your hesitation in going to see the medium is proof that God is not in favour of that decision. Please don't go and don't have any further contact with that lady, it is not in your best interests. Seek God's opinion on this matter, He will direct your paths.

Jodie - posted on 05/14/2013

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I have absolutely no doubt whatsoever your son is visiting you. Children are by far more in tune to the spirit world than we as adults are. As we grow older we do tend to close off that part of our mind.

My own daughter, when a baby used to have great conversations with the wall. When she was older she would frequently say things she couldn't possibly have known. She freaked people out a bit! As she got older she didn't lose the ability completely but it's not as intense as it was.

This woman who spoke to you had a gift. A close personal friend of mine is a very talented medium. She frequently gets strong signals off a person, whether it be a health issue or a passed loved one trying to communicate.. But what can you do? You can't just walk up to someone and say "hey by the way your great aunt Tessie say's hi". Mediums are people too, most of them are just regular people (not "witchy") and for this woman to have spoken to you about your son, the connection must have been extremely powerful, as most will NOT just randomly tell you things, because if they do, they are ostracized and it freaks other people out. She must have sensed you were open to the possibilities.

I'm sorry for the loss of your son. Another friend of mine also lost her son at age 6, also in 2011. She senses his presence regularly.

Take comfort that he is here with you. If you hear a laugh that sounds like his, catch a scent that smells like him randomly find something out of place that reminds you of him.. chances are, it IS him. :)

Missy - posted on 05/13/2013

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That is so exciting and special! I have read many books about near death and pre birth experiences as I believe in another life before this one and so that's very special that your son has permission to contact your family to let you know he is ok. I have no doubt your son is trying to send you comfort to let you know that he is ok so you can stop mourning him as I know he would be happy in heaven and wants you to be happy. Babies who die go straight to God as they are innocent and perfect and one day when Christ returns those spirits will be resurrected to their bodies and stil have an opportunity to be raised and grow. If you believe in Jesus then youcan have the chance to raise him in the millenium. That's what I believe and I have read much as well as know others who have had similar confirmations in regards to deceased children so I know it's true. Record what your daughter tells you about him because oneday the veil between heaven and earth will close over her eyes and she won't see him anymore so that she can continue with her life. I believe the medium may surely have sensitivities of spiritual things as her spiritual gift but I don't think it's necessary for you to take your family to see her as your son has already established contact through your daughter there is no need to involve a medium.

Jackie - posted on 05/15/2013

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Just one simple tip... if anyone asks for money from you-- they want to rip you off. If your child can communicate, they will. Seek guidance from your minister or other traditional spiritual leader.

If family members dream of your son it is a normal reaction to his passing or an aspect of mourning.

Any "medium" who would take advantage of a parent at a sensitive time like this is unconscionable.

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Jamie - posted on 05/26/2013

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I read this post and buckets were coming outta me! I think that what you have experienced is certainly proof that he is in fact communicating with your family. My only wonder is how an infant who is in the beginning of learning how to communcate in life could communicate in these ways (talking to your daughter and such), but I suppose that anything is certainly possible. It seems that it may be frightening you a little, and these types of things are definately a head-scratcher! I could NOT imagine going through what you have experienced but I think after getting used to it a little it could really make you feel soo good at what IS happeneing! And you have a little communicator that can message back to you as well :) That's really amazing...and rewarding to be able to know he is right there with you!

My neice was about 7-8 mos old when my Grandfather died. She was never around him, not even sure they had actually "met". We were celebrating Xmas, she was almost 3 at this time, my brother had mentioned that she had in fact identified him in a picure. They didn't do much further with it due to shock so I brought a photo to our celebration and asked her who he was and she again indentified him! A few weeks later my S-I-L heard her talking to someone on the monitor so she looked and watched and could not believe what she was hearing! She was sitting there having a conversation as if there was someone right in the room with her! She went in and asked who she was talking to and she said "Papa"....and told her what they were talking about and such.... And what I believe is that he also "congratulated" me when my son was born. There were 4 balloons in my son's room that was recieved at the same time so they had relatively the same amount of air. I was sitting in my living room with my son and all of a sudden the one balloon that said congratulations came floating down the hall. I thought there must just be a breeze of some sort, I left it there for a bit and when I got up I put it back in his room, even rearranged the balloons. No sooner did I sit back down, the same balloon came floating back down the hallway! I said "Ok, Papa I got your message! Thank you! I love you too!!" Maybe it was maybe is wasn't but I was feeling his presence and that made me so happy that he came to visit!

These things that are unexplainable happen whether ppl want to believe it or not. You should go see the Medium if you feel like there's more you need to know, or just simply want to feel that closeness to him. Just remember that he is obvioulsly always with you :) Take Care!

Robertaingram - posted on 05/22/2013

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This book is pure imagination, cute, but definitely not based on the bible.

Robertaingram - posted on 05/22/2013

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First I am sorry for your loss of your baby. He is definitely under heavenly care and I believe (I am a bible believer btw) that he can come to your dreams, but not to send messages, but to comfort you and your family. I dream with my grandmother almost everyday and she is gone for 15 years. I feel her close and it is good. It is not uncommon for people to come to loved ones dreams for a hug or a smile once and a while. If they were to keep giving input in our lives, Father would have them with us.

Sweta - posted on 05/22/2013

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After my 1st husband died we used to continue living our life in my dreams and I got lots of msgs from him...people do communicate with the other world..especially in there dreams,so I guess your son and daughter do communicate with each other

User - posted on 05/21/2013

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I truly believe your son visits your daughter in her dreams, mostly because she is still so young. However, if she continues believing and seeing her brother in her dreams, I believe it will continue for as long as she believes and remembers her brother. I have a couple of things to share with you about this:
My oldest grandson is now 11. When he was about 2 years old, he did not talk like most 2-year-olds do. It was very difficult to understand him. He was watching tv with his grandpa, which had a picture of Jesus above it. He very plainly told his grandfather he knew who was in that picture, that he had talked to Him before he was in his mother's belly, and He told him what church he needed to go to. When he was 3, he started school to learn sign language, then he really started talking; but no one had ever said anything to him about this subject!
I have a 3-year-old granddaughter whose paternal grandfather passed away more than 10 years ago. My daughter was at the grandmother's house when Emma was not even a year old. She was hold Emma on her lap in the kitchen near the doorway to the living room. Emma kept leaning toward the living room and looking toward the couch, where she would laugh and wave. There was no one there! Who was she waving and laughing at? We believe it was her grandpa! We are sure she could see him sitting there!
I know 2 mentally disabled adults. Neither can really talk, but they "see" (one is blind and has been since birth) angels. Both of them see relatives. I really believe these disabled people are special, they can hear and see things we cannot because they are "innocent," meaning they do not understand the difference between right and wrong.

User - posted on 05/21/2013

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Yes, it is very likely that your son is communicating with your daughter. Children are often times much more receptive to communicating with the spirit world because they don't have the inhibitions that we learn to have as we get older. Their minds are more open and receptive and they are still close to spirit world as they have not been in this realm for long. Also, it is very common for children and adults to receive messages from loved ones (who have passed) while they sleep. Your son Jace has a strong spirit. When I picture him though for some reason I don't see an infant. I see a teenage boy- someone who is older. Did you ever feel that he seemed older? Kind of like he was an "old soul?" What I think is particularly odd is that I get this e-mails from Circle of Moms all of the time and I rarely open or read the e-mails. Maybe once a year I open one of these e-mails. For some reason this time I opened this e-mail, scrolled down and saw your post. I decided to read it and was also struck because we also call our son Jase . I felt that it was important for me to write to you. I have had numerous encounters over the years with spirits that have crossed over and have done a lot of my own research over the years. Your son seems to have a higher purpose and is here to teach you and your family a significant life lesson to help the family heal. I obviously know nothing about you or your family, but I feel that the lesson has to do with an issue or way of thinking that has been passed along within your family for some time. I feel like he is trying to challenge a belief system and open up a new way of thinking. Your son's passing was horribly tragic. How beautiful that your daughter has the ability to communicate with his angelic presence on the other side and through her he is trying to guide and help the family.

Linnea - posted on 05/21/2013

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I encourage you to read a book called "Heaven is for Real" it's very touching about a 3 year old boy who almost died and went to heaven. Sounds like the things Jace is communicating are similar and he really is there! And God really can give your daughter dreams where they communicate with each other. But don't visit the medium. She was talking about the spirit telling her all these things, which ya that can happen but it's a real spirit she's communicating with but not a good one! It's dangerous territory!

Lerato - posted on 05/21/2013

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I know exactly what you are going through. As a mother who lost a daughter in 2011, believe me when I tell you, your son is not trying to communicate, he is communicating with you all, through your daughter and you directly through that lady. He may be afraid to come direct to you because he can see how much you're still hurting. He is your Guardian Angel, and you have to believe that despite the cause of his death, he is at peace.

For the mere fact that he communicated with you through a Medium in Easter, means he is also telling you not to move away from God because of what happened to him. I agree, go speak with your minister and also go see that woman, and hear for yourself what he has to say to you.

Tina - posted on 05/20/2013

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I would seek out a Minister who would be able to help you in this matter. I know that God created all things, creatures, humans, and yes He gave each of us a soul. He desires that all would come to Him through His son Jesus the Christ. It is not unusal to be scared about going. The Lord Jesus knows who is His and I would seek Him first and read the Bible to see what happened . The Word of God is true, and in this day and age, there are many who need to believe in Him . Believe what He did on the Cross for your soul, to have salvation, and know that He loves you. Yes there are spirits out there, they can be good or bad, depending on your understanding of Angels and or demons. An experience that I had is not like yours, but I will share it with you. I was busy cleaning out my sister's bedroom, she was in the hospital at the time with her own health problems. In the process of cleaning it out, there was a spirit that physically passed me and ran out the door I heard a high pitched scream as this happened. It literally gave my skin goosebumps. My mother was in the room as well if memory serves me right, so I do have a witness in that. There was something in the room that I was cleaning out a can that stunk really bad, from ? content. I have also had an experience where I wasn't alone in hearing my parents pet cat and feeling her paws on my face, and hearing her mew. That day, I learned that I wasn't the only one who had heard her or felt her. My son also had heard her as well. My daughter discovered her body, laid out on top of the house's cold air vent, with the fur still intact on her body. She was a bit shocked, to see the cat lying stretched out. The pet had been in that place for at least 6 mths. my mom had searched the house to find her and couldn't until my daughter had discovered her. We promptly buried her with a shoe box for her to rest in, in the back yard. So yes I know there are spirits, and I know since the Lord rose from the dead and visited His disciples as well as seeing many others, that the dead can have spirits to speak to you. But then the mind is something that God alone knows how it functions and how it reacts to such things. Pray, if you don't know Jesus and ask the minister about what you have had happen as well as bring in your daughter and let her share as well to the minister and then pray for the Lord to give you and your daughter Peace in this matter. Much prayer is needed so you will have His guidance in this matter.

Tina - posted on 05/20/2013

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I would seek out a Minister who would be able to help you in this matter. I know that God created all things, creatures, humans, and yes He gave each of us a soul. He desires that all would come to Him through His son Jesus the Christ. It is not unusal to be scared about going. The Lord Jesus knows who is His and I would seek Him first and read the Bible to see what happened . The Word of God is true, and in this day and age, there are many who need to believe in Him . Believe what He did on the Cross for your soul, to have salvation, and know that He loves you. Yes there are spirits out there, they can be good or bad, depending on your understanding of Angels and or demons. An experience that I had is not like yours, but I will share it with you. I was busy cleaning out my sister's bedroom, she was in the hospital at the time with her own health problems. In the process of cleaning it out, there was a spirit that physically passed me and ran out the door I heard a high pitched scream as this happened. It literally gave my skin goosebumps. My mother was in the room as well if memory serves me right, so I do have a witness in that. There was something in the room that I was cleaning out a can that stunk really bad, from ? content. I have also had an experience where I wasn't alone in hearing my parents pet cat and feeling her paws on my face, and hearing her mew. That day, I learned that I wasn't the only one who had heard her or felt her. My son also had heard her as well. My daughter discovered her body, laid out on top of the house's cold air vent, with the fur still intact on her body. She was a bit shocked, to see the cat lying stretched out. The pet had been in that place for at least 6 mths. my mom had searched the house to find her and couldn't until my daughter had discovered her. We promptly buried her with a shoe box for her to rest in, in the back yard. So yes I know there are spirits, and I know since the Lord rose from the dead and visited His disciples as well as seeing many others, that the dead can have spirits to speak to you. But then the mind is something that God alone knows how it functions and how it reacts to such things. Pray, if you don't know Jesus and ask the minister about what you have had happen as well as bring in your daughter and let her share as well to the minister and then pray for the Lord to give you and your daughter Peace in this matter. Much prayer is needed so you will have His guidance in this matter.

Jaden - posted on 05/20/2013

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I think that yes, he is trying to reach out to your family. What an incredible story and a wonderful gift. I would love to hear an update if you do go to the medium- as to what she had to say, what Jace said to you, and whether it brought you peace of mind. Hugs to you, my friend, as I cannot imagine the pain you must be going through.

Susan (Jimmie's Aunt Susie) - posted on 05/20/2013

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I'd go and let her help. She seems genuine to me. I talk to dead people but I have a "wall" and spirit guides that keep many out in order to protect from any negative energy and from being overwhelmed. My brother is almost always with me though. He tells me things I couldn't have known otherwise and has helped us find many lost things. My step dad is around too. He used to drink some kind of breakfast tea and I smell it brewing when there is nothing at all being made here. Sometimes I will pick up on other people but my departed loved ones are the easiest to contact. My nephew is 4 and he's seen my brother and others quite a bit. When he was two and three he used to tell Grandma he was talking to his Uncle. He also asks my mom if her "friends" are visiting because he can see the spirits. Sometimes I feel them holding my hands also. I am so very sorry for your loss. hugs

Linda - posted on 05/20/2013

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I do think it's true, that Jace is contacting your family. It's been almost 24 years since I lost my first daughter. I know she has contacted me and her brother's and now I see my 3yro daughter Emma say that she has been talking to her sister. I have only 5 live children. It can happen. Nytalya is here and comforts all of us when we need it. My oldest son who is 20 yro says that his older sister has been telling him what he needs to do for our family. Go and trust it. All will be ok

Elizabeth - posted on 05/20/2013

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Jamie,

I didn't mean to make it sound so bad, and I don't believe any medium would send demons after anyone, I just think that there are some things that should be left alone. I definitely believe in your gift and while it's amazing, you never know exactly what you could be capable of or what else that other person you are trying to help may have trying to get through to them. I have had a lot of very frightening dreams after anyone I've ever been close with has passed away, I feel like it's some other thing's way of getting close to me. I think that Kasandra's daughter is the safest opening to communication with her son. If I offended you I am truly sorry! I know you're blessed with an amazing gift,but still you never know, if you are okay with talking more, send me a message because I have some things I could tell you to explain my reasoning and maybe you could convince me other wise or atleast clear my head.

ASTRO - posted on 05/19/2013

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BELIEVE IT! First of all, children are the MOST psychic beings on earth.. Things like this happen ALL THE TIME but sadly people are afraid to talk about it out of fear of judgement.. Being an open minded individual people often confide in me about their experiences with the other side and I love hearing beautiful stories just like this one.. How incredible that this medium reached out and validated what deep down you already knew :) Thanks for sharing!

Courtney - posted on 05/18/2013

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At nineteen my father died quite suddenly of a brain hemorrhage. A few weeks after his death I had an intense dream which provided me extreme peace. He has also come to visit each of my brothers and sisters in their dreams. My family has a history of psychic sensitivity experiencing dreams and visions although we don't directly hear from spirits. Both of my children talk or laugh and smile at things we don't see. I think it might be my dad since often I'll catch a whiff of the cigars he used to smoke (no one smokes in our house or even smokes these that I know - very distinct odor.) So yes, I do believe your daughter's experiences are real. I believe soul's are ageless and that even though your son died as an infant he would still be able to communicate.

If really interested in pursuing going to a medium, you may want to watch "Long Island Medium". I think it is on the Discovery Channel. Dr. Oz had her on recently and did a scan of her brain while doing a reading. It was quite interesting. You may want to research that. I would also suggest that you pray about going to see the lady that was at your restaurant. I think you will find your answer there.

I pray you find peace and comfort in this. God speed.

Cindy - posted on 05/17/2013

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Oh, you are so lucky. Your son loves you all so much and God has allowed him to help you all through your loss in such a special way. Please do go see her so she can help you hear what he wants to tell you. What have you got to lose?! Besides, Jace must have encouraged her to sit at your table and speak to you. She should not ask for money.

Jamie - posted on 05/17/2013

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No one has 5he right to tell you what to do or say c about it sorry for ur loss!. Ur in prayer.

Peggy - posted on 05/17/2013

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Oh, yes. I don't call myself a Medium, but I also get visits. It sounds very believable to me that he would contact your daughter. Being young the door to the outside is open,For some more than others. In sleep it is safer for to talk to him. I really think you should go see this woman. Jace will always be with you. I think you really go talk to her. If you gain nothing, you will not lose anything either.

Amanda - posted on 05/17/2013

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Many people in my family dreamed about my grandmother after she passed even me. I believe you, but for me I am unsure if I would ever go see a medium. I don't think they are evil, but sometimes a dream is enough. I know she is in Heaven and safe and no longer in pain and for me that is enough. But also I had many years with my grandma and you had a short time with your son so I can't say what I would do if anything happened to my son. I would probably wait a few years, cause they say the soul ages as they would have on earth, so he would be older, and then maybe tell you things then, and then you would also know if she was a true medium cause he could tell her more things about what happens. If you are unsure I would wait. Maybe you aren't ready to hear what she has to say. Either way sorry to hear about your loss. Family never truly leave you, they are in our hearts and memories.

Jennifer - posted on 05/17/2013

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I admire your support and belief in your daughter's experiences! There is a book called Embraced By The Light author's name is Eady I believe. There is also a book called Heaven Is For Real, discusses a boy's near death experience. The first one I've read and would recommend it to anyone looking for afterlife acknowledgement or confirmation. The second one I've only heard is a child's near death experience. I do believe in life after death, and your story is a compelling one. It sounds too coincidental. Thank you so much for being willing to share with the rest of us! Keep a good heart!

Robin - posted on 05/17/2013

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Just dont pay this woman any money. If she came to you, her service or info should be free

Jamie - posted on 05/17/2013

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Elizabeth,
I'm a physic medium. Spirits DO exist. It's ok that you are a skeptic. We are not evil or scary. We don't send demons after people. We have a gift that was given to us by the Divine.
I know that the unknown can be scary. I just want you to know that what we do is a positive thing.

Kasandra,
Do what feels right for you. If you feel that going to see the medium will give you a bit of peace then go for it.
Your son is always around you. Please take comfort in that.

Melynda - posted on 05/17/2013

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I believe!! Ur story gave me goose bumps. Ur family should go and see her, may give u closure. Omg my heart hurts for u. I'm so sorry for ur loss. I can't imagen how u must feel but the thought of ur lil baby in haven enjoying him self must be comforting. Im sorry

Heidi - posted on 05/17/2013

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Children are able to sense and see spirits when they are young. Why do you think they have "imaginary friends" or dream of people that may have passed from this life to the next. I still get visions from people who've passed. Particularly if I am making a decision and its not a great one, my grandmother will reach out and all I'll see whether in my dreams or in my thoughts is of her holding a wooden spoon (that's what she did when you went a little too far with Grandma, it was enough to curb even my naughtiness at a child). I suffered a miscarriage at 9 weeks at the end of March. Since then I've only seen a blue blanket in my mind. A sign that the baby I carried was suppose to be a boy. Be open to it. If there are things your son would have liked or done, and you sense that, then he's talking to you.

Kasandra - posted on 05/17/2013

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I know Jace is trying to reach out to me as well... I awoke the other night to a baby crying (there aren't any babies in my house) and when I woke up I hear a little boy say "never forget I love you & daddy to the moon and back"

It's a phrase we said often.... chills instantly

Kasandra - posted on 05/17/2013

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My daughter says that her brother talks like she does... she said sometimes he doesnt make sense and talks weird... what i am gathering from her information is that Jace talks as if he were 2 and learning how to speak in sentences....

Last night Madi had some sort of dream/nightmare maybe and she was screaming "no no no please, dont go" She wouldn't talk to me about it...She has done this very often since her brother passed but wont tell me any details when I ask.

Any thoughts?

❤❤❤ - posted on 05/16/2013

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I lost my daughter while I was pregnant. At 20 weeks I was induced and delivered her on my birthday. My aunt by marriage is a cherokee shaman. I spoke to her in regards to my daughter and she told me things that she could not and would not know. I am a private person and do not talk about her to people. It is a painful touchy subject even though it was 11 years ago. Like the box that I keep her things from the hospital she knew I was in it the other day. I always told our other kids she was with us and watching over us. My aunt confirmed this for me. She told me about all the computers I have messed up, the dryer, stove, tv the list is endless. My husband said I have the finger of death when it comes to electronics. But it was our daughter reaching out. I have no regrets talking to her and feel more at peace about the whole thing. Now when the computer messes up or the radio switches to every possible station I know it's her. Going to a medium is not for everyone I was not for it at first either but you do what you need to do. Best of luck!

Angela - posted on 05/16/2013

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just follow your heart and keep an open mind, remember to be wise of the conditions you're working with.

Kimberley - posted on 05/16/2013

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I say yes go see her. I have had a similar experience with my granny. I am a believer in ghosts and the supernatural, there is a reason that woman was your customer. If you are a believer, then you have your answer. Talk with your husband and urge him to please consider going, because contrary to the nonbeliever mediums do exist......and it is very rare you find a real one, let alone one finding you. But no one can tell you what you should do, if you believe then go. If you don't believe then put it out of your head. Honestly tho, hearing your daughters dreams, you already know and feel the answer. In whatever your choice is, I wish you well and hope you find what you need and what you are looking for.
~So mote it be~

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Kasandra, your story is very touching. I hope this is your son trying to communicate with you. I am a Christian and while I don't believe in mediums, I do believe in angels reaching out. My grandma told me that ghosts don't exist, only angels and demons, and they can indeed try to reach out to us in the form of loved ones who have passed, in order to make us feel more comfortable. Now, I am not sure how God gets his angels, but many do believe that passed infants and fetuses become angels. If this is the case, then I am sure your son is an angel and he is indeed trying to let your family know things will be okay. I don't think the medium is a good idea, she sounds scary and if she is truly legit, she could open the portal for demons to start contacting you. Don't do this. Your daughter is pure and innocent and if she seems to be the communication medium for your family and your angel son, please just talk to her, and also maybe let your son know it is okay for him to reveal himself to you.

Nevina - posted on 05/16/2013

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Hiya, I used to hear and feel presences when I was younger. The last time I heard or felt anything was around 10yrs ago though. My advise would be to speak about this to your hubby as I'm sure you want to know what is going on but he may not. Your hubby may not want to bring it up as its too painful.
Also you mentioned your baby was only 6months old when he passed away then how could it be possible that he can talk to your daughter?

Jeanette - posted on 05/15/2013

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Hi there, yes is the short answer 2 ur question. My daughter was only 8wks old & very poorly when she passed nearly 20yrs ago & still has conversations with me & her older sister. Naomi was & still is a very big part of our lives, not in a morbid sense that we can't let her go. We have found a sense of peace knowing that she watches over us. My older daughter was 3yrs old when Naomi left this life & she used 2 say the same sort of things 2 me. At first I did find this quite disturbing as I thought it was strange & un natural 2 'play' & talk 2 her sister. However what changed my mind was when at what should've bin our 1st Christmas I was at Naomi s graveside & 8 white feathers landed around an ornamental Angel. I go 2 see a medium & have 'spoken 2 her a few times... I also have conversations at home & sometimes Naomi will let me or her sister know if things r goin 2 b ok when we r worried. Only you will know if & when u'll b ready. Goodluck with your journey.
J xx

Keri - posted on 05/15/2013

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I think you HAVE to go. That wouldn't have happened unless he had something to do with her being there. He wants to communicate to you probably with a little more intellectually advanced being. Not to say that your daughter is not special or smart (Because she is, and has an incredible gift, if even for just the time being), but an adult who can get some things to you that a 4 year old can't. I deeply feel for you, and your post made me cry. I have had strange conversations with my son when he was 3, who said he'd tried to come sooner, but I wasn't ready...that he was waiting for Daddy. I lost 2 babies before I met his Dad, and no one but me knew this. My daughter at 4-6 talked about her baby brother. Described him all the time. She didn't have one. When she was 7, I gave birth to another boy... I believe in children's ability to communicate with the other side, and I strongly feel that you came into contact with this woman not by accident, but by fate. Jace needs to tell you something important. trinity_lost@yahoo.com if you ever need to talk. I am extremely curious about how this turns out. Good luck :)

Carrie - posted on 05/15/2013

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I am deeply sorry for your loss. If you believe that by going it would help you, then go. If you think it would confuse or upset you, don't go. Only you can say what this experience would do for you. I believe in mediums, spirits, etc. and have seen that they can help people with loss. If you are looking for conformation in your mind and heart that your son is ok,happy and still with your family the medium can maybe give you that. It doesn't sound like she had any hidden agenda here. She went out to eat, fate put you both there at that time. Again, only you can say what going would do for you. I think it's beautiful that Jace visits his sister and that you don't tell her it's "fake",it probably really helps her to keep that connection with him.

Basia - posted on 05/15/2013

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Finally, r u ready and willing to listen to this medium. If u don't trust her, ur trip to see hear her will be useless or u will doubt her and urself even more.

Basia - posted on 05/15/2013

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I, personally, am finding it hard to read the comments where u r advised vs doing something. Ask urself what u have to lose, why u want to go, could you find a way to be content by just listening to ur son thru ur daughter, and finally, what do u want--what r u hoping to gain? Listen to urself, my dear. All of this advise is enough to make a person crazy in the head. Go within and inquire. There u will find the best answer, free from fear, when u get really quiet and ask.

Alice - posted on 05/15/2013

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Don't go see her...when one dies it is over for that person..they can not do anything. she can take you further than you can imagine. Once again do not go there. Do not go.

Fabiola - posted on 05/15/2013

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I am so sorry for your lost, I wouldent recomend to go to this medium, you have one alreadyyour daughter, tell her what you want to say to the little one, tell HER TO TELL HER brother that he have to go on, go to the light, you dont want your baby to become a ghost, try to let him go.God bless you!

Rachel - posted on 05/14/2013

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i wouldn't encourage going to mediums as we really do not know if they are for real or fake. not that i am doubting that lady, but the truth is we really do not know.

take comfort that his sister is able to communicate with him now and that he is well and watching over the family. i'm sure he wants you to be happy and smile when you think of him, not cry... i know it is hard not to cry and it will take time. give yourself time to grieve and after that smile at the happy memories. let it be happy tears. =)

but do know that this "ability" may not be there forever or that he will come back to visit forever. i know because i used to have this "ability" to communicate in dreams and see "them" when i was a child. but all these just stopped suddenly one day. i don't even know how or when it stopped until years later when i suddenly realized that i do not see "them" or communicate with "them" anymore.

also be informed that jace may not be the only one madi is communicating with. do keep a tab on her to ensure all is well.

i never have a religion and has always kept an open mind towards it. the seeing and communicating happens every day and night, and very often of people i do not know but felt as if i have known them. i have no explanation for that. the most bizarre is that it carries on from where it was left off. as if you paused a video and continue playing it later. and the details are well remembered, unlike dreams that you forget minutes after you wake up... i still remember those dreams as if they really happened and they are part of my memory.

my hb also had the "ability" to see them, not so sure about dreams though. hence i'm watching over my kids closely to see if they too have the "ability".

take care my dear... jace clearly loves the family and want all of you to be happy and strong. *hugs*

Basia - posted on 05/14/2013

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If u feel u need to communicate with him directly and aren't sure how, go, my friend.

Basia - posted on 05/14/2013

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I think, personally, by going to meet this medium, you would be able to meet ur son again and thus, express ur love and grief to ur son and have him talk to u directly thru her. I think this would give u a sense of completion and/or perhaps, an opportunity for open and enduring communication with him.

thank you extremely much for sharing,
Basia Carpentier

Heather - posted on 05/14/2013

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this just brought me to tears. I can't imagine losing my son and I am so sorry for your loss. I do believe that your son is communicating to your daughter through her dreams and I do believe he is in heaven and so happy and smiling down and watching over your family, however, I would not trust the medium.

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From someone who never believed but is now an adamant believer herself, please do if you need that closure. I experience different things now myself and have been told be three separate strangers to expect to be able to use medium gifts in the future, none of which I had shared anything with or had had any previous contact with. I personally believe that it isn't against god as he is the source of all and would want us to be happy and at peace x

Mercedes - posted on 05/14/2013

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wow this is amazing i lost my 5 yr old son a month ago and i have a 3 yr old daughter we miss him so much

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