Beth Ann - posted on 07/05/2013 ( 47 moms have responded )
I am a first time mom. My son is almost 3 months old. His father and I are not married. I set up for his parent to watch the baby over night while we went out on a date. Well my boyfriend got angry over something silly that led to more issues being brought up. He said he was staying at his parents. I was extremely upset and said I was coming to get the baby. His father said no he is sleeping and fine. So I drove over there to get him and he wouldn't let me, then his mother came out(seeing how upset I was) told me the plans were for baby to stay there and he was sleeping and fine, I can't take him home with me. I never once am concerned with his safety, that wasnt the issue at all. I was just very very upset and wanted my baby. He is only 3 months old so it's also a separation thing. His father and I rarely argue like that and not once since the baby has been born. So I was being selfish by goin over there to get him? Was I out of line for getting so upset when they told me no? Was grandma out of line for not allowing it? I just feel so lost and not in control with the whole situation. I feel if I feel I want my baby, I should be able to get him whenever. It is still new when it comes to leaving him anywhere, let alone when I am up set.