IN NEED OF LOTS OF ADIVCE

Wendy - posted on 02/10/2009

Are yall keeping the baby or looking into other options you need to talk to see which way would be best for yall and the baby. If you don't mind me asking how old are you will you be able to raise another child at this time. You like i said need to talk together and figure out what each of you want as a whole.

Wendy - posted on 02/10/2009

Are yall keeping the baby or looking into other options you need to talk to see which way would be best for yall and the baby. If you don't mind me asking how old are you will you be able to raise another child at this time. You like i said need to talk together and figure out what each of you want as a whole.

Ashli - posted on 02/08/2009

Reply - Congratulations! I am almost in the same boat. Only mine is twelve months and will be about 16 months when the new baby comes. I'm nervous about how it will go too. It may actually be a little easier if you first one isn't walking yet. At least he won't be into everything while you are trying to take care of the new one. I would suggest trying to get the grandparents to help if possible. Both mine and my husband's parents live at least a couple hours away but we are planning to send our older son to stay with them for a few days after we come home from the hospital. Good luck again and keep in touch. I'll share any info I can when the time comes.

Lauren - posted on 02/08/2009

As a 24 yr old mother of 6 I have plenty of advice to give.  I completely understand your situation!!  I have 2 stepsons which are older and help out when needed.  My four kids are all so very close in age 4,3, and 1 yr old twins.  My first two are 10 months apart!!!  All I can say is schedule schedule schedule!!!!  Being in a routine is alot easier on you as for the kids.  Everything tends to run smoother and not so crazy/insane!!  Make sure you make time for yourself so you dont get completely stressed!!  I would also suggest getting your baby a baby doll and hold it and introduce the idea of another baby. 

Pamela - posted on 02/08/2009

The best advice i can give you is get into a routine as soon as you can. Remember to have plenty of rest so when bubs sleeps you sleep. Have your partner give you an hour break when he gets home so you can have some alone time to unwind and deal with the emotions of being pregnant and a new mum. Accept help when you are offered honestly take advantage of any help offered your gonna need help. Once the new bubs is born remember to make time for your first child and you to spend together especially with them being so close as your first child is going to still be very dependent on you for everything. Lastly goodluck have patience i hope it all works out.

Alicia - posted on 02/08/2009

My Children are 14 months apart. It was very challenging to say the least. Make time for yourself when possible. Try to get them on the same sleep schedule ( at first it will be impossible). Be patient and let your partner help when he can. Let me know if you need anything else.

Janice - posted on 02/08/2009

Congratulations! I would say from my experience (i have 5 aged seven and under) just go with the flow. Rest when you can, listen to what your body tells you. They will be so very close as they grow up, which is worth it. The main thing will be a double buggy and finding one that works for you. good luck and hope this helps x

Stacey - posted on 02/08/2009

congrats on both, you new lil one of the way and the lil one you have now. I wish you the best of luck. One advice that I was given was to stock up on diaper early that when the baby is born that you wont run short.

Eugenie - posted on 02/08/2009

Get on a schedule now, honestly, it's one of the best things you can do. If you can try to get your son on a schedule (I know, not easy at that age) it will make things go a little smoother. Even scheduling something like bath at a specific time or feedings, or whatever you can schedule, try to do it, then you'll just have to shift things a little when the new baby comes. Congrats on the pregnancy, and remember, God wouldn't have given it to you if he didn't think you could handle it! =)

Jenny - posted on 02/08/2009

wow. Good luck, try and get as much rest as you can now.