Katie - posted on 08/25/2010 ( 9 moms have responded )
So lucky me my fiance's mom decided to move in to the same complex as us and there happened to be an aparment right behind ours on the same level that was opened, so she moved there. Now I will say that she does a lot for us, helps with money when we're low or babysits when we need a break from the kid. So ever since she moved in behind us she has been taking our daughter a lot more! I hate it. When ever my daughter comes home from being there she is such a brat, she screams and cries about everything. I try to stick to time outs or ignoring it but I just can't stand it anymore. I work so its just my fiance thats home all day with our daughter so I can't help if she goes over to his moms while I'm not there. I feel like if our daughter only went over there once a week or even twice that she wouldn't be acting like she does. I tried telling my fiance that she acts like this because his mom is spoiling her and letting her get away with things we wouldn't let her do but for some reason he wont look at it the way I do. Finally the other day he said that the way she acts is probably because of his mom. Should I talk to his mom about it and tell her that she can't see my daughter as much anymore or should I have my fiance tell his mom? I am seriously going crazy. Just last weekend my daughter woke up in a horrible mood and cried about nothing. I put her back in her crib to calm down because I was not going to be around her when she was just going to stand there and cry and his mom heard it and called and said can I come get her? I wanted to slap his mom so hard. Its not like my daughter was hurt/sick she was crying because she wanted to not because she was in danger. I think I need to move! Please help, if you've been in my position let me know what you did and how you handled it! Thank you!