Is it me or my stepdaughter don,t like me,we was all in a store and i had know clue she was in there,until she said she saw us later on i really wish she just go on and go home,she been here 3 weeks already,what a wife to do ?
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Emily - posted on 07/30/2012
There's not much you can or should do. This is your husband's daughter. If there are changes that need to be made, that is his responsibility. Does he have sole custody now? If that's the case, you're going to have to find a way to live with her and get along.
Bottom line: You're the adult. You need to set the example for acceptable behavior. It's not your stepdaughter's job to like you. But you still need to treat her with respect and be the "bigger" person in the situation. Stay calm and act like a grown up. If you let on that you want her out, she's definitely not going to treat you with any respect.
Dove - posted on 07/30/2012
You just want your stepdaughter to go home? Is that correct? Sorry, really hard to understand a 'word' you've posted, but I 'think' that's what you are saying.
What are you to do? Suck it up or don't choose to marry a man who already has kids.