Jenalee - posted on 08/09/2009 ( 25 moms have responded )
So we are currently living upstairs in my bfs moms house and I am due in 19 days. the upstairs was messy but not horrible, there were some dishes, laundry on the floor books ect, and water bottles everywhere (but we were going to clean it and have already). So his mom contacts my mom without telling us and tells her that she's taking us home with her from the hospital for a month while (his mom) she and a cleaning lady sanitize the upstairs. Uh, no. Not ok, my mom is not happy with this and neither are we. My bf tells his mom no that is not what's going to happen, and that we are going to clean the upstairs. (his mom has a lot of problems is on medications ect) So they fight then she finally agrees that we can stay with her until we have enough money to get our own place. We walk to the grocery store to buy food for dinner and while we are there my bfs moms bf calls us on our cell, he is drunk and he yells at my bf not making much sense but repeating things like "you better shape up!" My bf tells him he's not making sense and that he's drunk and he hangs up on my bf. My bf tries to call him back once we're out of the store but the phone is busy. When we get home the police are there. They suggest that we not stay at home tonight, we don't have money for a hotel we don't have any friends who can take us in and my parents don't live here, the idiots suggest we sleep in the car! We can't anyway because it's being fixed. The woman cop basically tells me that my bf is a loser and that I should leave him (like its any of her business!). I am super super super pissed (because its all his moms fault, she just wants the upstairs perfect when it doesn't have to be!) I am not the yelling confrontational type, but i tell her in front of the police that if i brought my son upstairs right now, he wouldn't die, she harrumphs at me and says something like "well she's prepared to live in that filth..." the police left and we're still here but i don't think i'll ever look at her and her bf the same (in my opinion they are just trying to fuck up our lives so that they can be in control)
but really. did we deserve this?