Amanda - posted on 02/14/2010 ( 4 moms have responded )
Needing a lil advice..I've a 9 yr old boy and a 6 month old boy.. My 9 yr old has always been my best friend since birth..until recently. Lately it seems that he Purposely does things to aggravate me...I understand that I dont spend as much time with him as I used 2 before our 6 month old was born, but even before the baby, I was and still am a career mom...Hes a Wonderful help with the baby, but I catch him doing things 2 taunt his brother and its sooo aggravating!! Hes a lot more mature than a typical 9 yr old so this behavior is really getting to me because I'm not used to this type of immaturity from him... I've tried having "date" nights with him so that he can see that I do enjoy spending time with him and that I do appreciate and miss him, but lately I've come to resent him at times...I'm hoping and praying that me and him can get back to where we used to be...Any suggestions?