Becky - posted on 06/16/2010 ( 5 moms have responded )
7 months ago, I found out while at a Dr's appt for an ear infection,that my MIL was talking shit about me. My neighbor and MIL were helping me to clean because my husband was on bedrest for having knee surgery days earlier,our youngest was 3 weeks old at the time,and my cousin was coming the next day for a visit(I didn't know this at the time) My neighbor told me that my MIL wanted to go through our things and throw stuff out-she stopped her. She then told my neighbor that I was depressed,that these were signs of a depressed person because our 3rd bdrm/office wasn't clean. She also told her that I should get rid of a shirt because I wouldn't be able to fucking squeeze into it(exact words).
I just can't seem to let it go-she's a Jesus freak,and her words were not Christian-like at all. In my time of need,she was mean and catty. I can't look at her/deal with her the same anymore. As far as I'm concerned,our relationship will never be the same. Am I wrong to not want to deal with her anymore unless absolutely necessary? What would you do/how would you feel?