Brooke - posted on 01/28/2010
you will get pregnant again. I had a miscarriage in 2008, I found out when I was supposed to be 14 weeks pregnant, It was a planned pregnancy and dreadfully heartbreaking news when we found no heart beat. I fell pregnant a month later. My daughter is now 1. I used to see pregnant women all the time and think that should be me, it happens in it's own time. This was natures way of saying there was something wrong. It is important that you don't think that this is your fault.
Belinda - posted on 01/28/2010
sorry to hear of your loss , i too miscarried 24th of December 2008 after been told i would never concieve naturally she was 22wks we dont know why it just happened i was heartbroken but 5 weeks later i was pregnant again and my special little girl was born on the 19th of november 2009.
although we will never forget the ones we lost My little Maddie has made me feel alive again.
Take care and stay strong
Sharon - posted on 01/28/2010
Aww, Honey, I'm so sorry. I have had 3 miscarriages but i have 2 beautiful children so there is hope. Look at it this way, something just wasn't perfect and a miscarriage is just natures way. Stay positive, I know its hard and there will be people all around you having babies (When i was having my 2nd mis. Rachel on Friends was giving birth and i was sobbing my heart out!). Multiple miscarriages are not the norm so chances are you will be luckier next time. Try again when you feel ready. Good luck.
Amanda - posted on 01/28/2010
I am so sorry to hear about your loss :( I understand what you feel. Here is my story in a nut shell......I fell pregnant in October of '08, found out we were having a boy in February and our edd was July 10th, 2009, went into premature labor March 8th, '09 gave birth to our Precious son Hunter on March 12th weighing 1 pound 3 ounces and he was 13 inches, oh and he was born breech, Hunter lived for 23 amazing days in the NICU at Children's Hospital and died in my arms on April 4th, 2009 at 11pm......It was the first and the last time I got to hold our Precious baby......About 2 weeks after Hunter's Service I found out that one of my best friends was 6 weeks pregnant....not to mention about 6 people I know were pregnant and we were all due just weeks apart.....It was so hard for me to see them going through their pregnancies and knowing that I should be going through the same things but I wasn't....I was so happy for all of my friends but at the same time I was jealous even angry at times......but there is nothing I could do to change what had happened. Hunter was born premature due to IC (Incompetent Cervix), since we now know that I have IC I will be receiving a stitch around 12-14 weeks gestation to prevent (hopefully) another premature birth. I know it's so hard, but know that it's okay to feel all sort of emotions some good, some bad it's a healing process and you will get pregnant again and you will have a beautiful baby! We are currently ttc (trying to conceive) and have been for 7 months :( But when the time is right it will happen and that will be a wonderful day!! Good Luck to you!! I hope you get preggo soon!!! I'll kmfc (keep my fingers crossed) for you and everyone else trying to have a baby!!!!
Paula - posted on 01/28/2010
Hi Leighanne i know how you feel as i took had a miscarriage before i had my disabled son who is 5yrs old now. We have been trying for another baby and found out that i was pregnant again in august last year but lost twins just before christmas. I was devastated and still am but it wont stop us from trying again as im 38 and feel that time is running out for me. Please keep trying and im sorry for your loss Paula xx
Linda - posted on 01/28/2010
hi hunney- thats sad to hear and i understand your feelings about your sister in law. when i had my miscarriage i was sent to hospital for a curete and after the procedure i was placed in the maternity ward to listen to all the babys cry while i just lost mine.but a month and a half later i fell pregnant ! so theres light at the end of the tunnel hunney, but it is sad because even though you dont feel the baby inside you in the early days , once its gone- you know its gone , u feel empty.my heart goes out to you love- but try again because just because you have had one miscarriage that doesnt mean you will never get pregnant. take care and i know that you will get pregnant again , so let us know when it happens!
Susanna - posted on 01/28/2010
Sorry for your loss.... I have a similar story. It hurts alot, and let it be what it will be. If you want to try again just have a chat with your Doctor to make sure it is safe. If not well everything in its own time. Your baby is an angel in every sense.
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