move on-- father of your baby left you?

Louveda - posted on 06/27/2012

Thats rough. I was alone during my 1st pregnancy but it was a little different in that ending the relationship was my idea. I gave him the option to be involved but he declined. So I focused on taking care of myself & my baby. It sucks being alone sometimes but I got through it & it did get better. It will help if you surround yourself with people who care about you.

Ashley - posted on 06/27/2012

I have been there done that. First thing first is make sure you stay level headed so you don't stress yourself out during your pregnancy. And don't feel like just because you have a baby with the guy that you should be with him. I tried it and it definitely did not work. I put more focus on making a family with him than focusing fully on my son. Its not about you or him anymore. You have to do whats best for your child.

Sharlene - posted on 06/27/2012

Look its pretty late here in Aust, I really do hope it works out between both of you and your boyfriend and good luck with the baby, and keep me posted on both of you and baby. take care

Sharlene - posted on 06/27/2012

Well can you go to him?

Jeremie - posted on 06/27/2012

NOT YET BECAUSE THEY WERE IN RIYADH

Sharlene - posted on 06/27/2012

Cool, well like I said if you can some how try to contact him and work things out, Have you spoken to family members about it and what have they said?

Jeremie - posted on 06/27/2012

ITS 8:00 PM Y? I DO HOPE THAT WE WILL BE TOGETHER :)

Sharlene - posted on 06/27/2012

Can I ask you what time is it in the Philippines? lol

Sharlene - posted on 06/27/2012

So was he like a high school sweet heart, Well all I can say is try to talk to him some how and try to work this problem out between both of you's and hopefully bring this baby in to the world together, Especially the history between both of you's

Jeremie - posted on 06/27/2012

yah.. but they live in riyadh too. we've in relationship for so long, but its on and off

Sharlene - posted on 06/27/2012

How long was you and your boyfriend were together for

Sharlene - posted on 06/27/2012

Do you know his family, or close friends

Sharlene - posted on 06/27/2012

I cant read your last post lol, it wont let me

Jeremie - posted on 06/27/2012

i dont know how? .. we don't have any communication at all i dont know where he is in riyadh i dont have his contact no. and he blocked me on faceook .. that's why we can't talk

Sharlene - posted on 06/27/2012

Can you speak to him and tell how you feel and see how he feels for you and the baby. You's both really need to talk and work this out before the baby comes, What has your family said about all this. Do you want to private message me and we can talk .lol

Jeremie - posted on 06/27/2012

i dont know if he loves me , based on what he did to us i can tell he does'nt love me.. were still young im 21 and he's 22

Sharlene - posted on 06/27/2012

If you love him and if he feels the same way, then thats good, Try to work things out as best for you and him and espeacially baby. How old is he and yourself ?.do you mind me asking

Jeremie - posted on 06/27/2012

yah i have a support from my family ..it's kinda hard,but I know I can.. but i love the father of my baby .. if he comes back when the baby is already born? what shall i do?

Sharlene - posted on 06/27/2012

Well that would be telling you something,like I said just move on with your life and have the support of your family and later on meet a wonderful men that would love you and your baby, And if later on if the father is interested to get to know his child then thats good but If hes walked out on you and has not told hes parents then like I said in my first post hes a bastard, excuse my french.lol How do you feel of being a single mum and do you have the support of your family?

Jeremie - posted on 06/27/2012

not yet! turning 4months this coming july.. since the day he knew about my pregnancy he left away and did not show any concerns .. and he did not told it to his parents either.

Sharlene - posted on 06/26/2012

Sorry is baby already born? And if he does not ring forget him and still fight for child support you can do much better.

Jeremie - posted on 06/26/2012

oh thanks sharlene ..but the father of my baby is already at saudi arabia and im in the philippines..he does'nt tx or call to check my baby? nothing

Sharlene - posted on 06/26/2012

Then if thats the case take him to court, Move on with this unborn baby and get the support from your family and fight him for childsupport and you will find the right men out there that would love you and your baby. if you ever want to chat message me anytime okay, hang in there ,

Jeremie - posted on 06/26/2012

but even for financial support he does'nt want to help us out?

Jeremie - posted on 06/26/2012

but even foe financial support he does'nt want to help us?

Sharlene - posted on 06/26/2012

And fight him for child support. good luck again

Sharlene - posted on 06/26/2012

Just move on and think about this unborn baby, do you family that can help.and the father sound like a bastard to me him leaving you and this unborn baby . good luck