my 11 years daughter thinks she is old the enough to have a boyfriend what can i do to stop that

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Carol - posted on 08/06/2012

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You don't even know it is a boy. Adult men do this to lure kids! If she is giving out information on facebook she does not know safe rules for the internet. She should not have any facebook or computer priviledges at all or without you watching every step. Don't let her answer the phone and don't let him talk to her. Explain how dangerous this could be and tell her other kids and their families have been killed by imposters. This "boy" is a stranger and she needs to understand NOW that you don't talk like that to strangers. This is serious.

Carol - posted on 08/06/2012

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Don't get into a war over semantics. Your daughter can have friends and they can be boys. She is too young to date and should always have adults around when she is with friends. I would encourage group activities. If she wants to call him a boyfriend there is not much you can do. Explain to her that when older kids use that term they mean they are dating and that they have only one friend that is a boy. Ask her what she means. Ask her why she thinks her friendship with him will be different if she calls him her "boyfriend". Listen try hard not to lecture. Tell her you won't use the term because that is not what is going to happen. Supervise and....if you have not it is time to start the birds and bees discussions. Girls are getting their period earlier and earlier and getting pregnant earlier and earlier.

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Carol - posted on 08/06/2012

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Get your older kids to tell her how dangerous what she did was. Why did you think this was about "should an 11 year old have a boyfriend" and not "my daughter is being cyber bullyed and harassed by a complete stranger she gave her number to on the internet"

Cindy - posted on 08/06/2012

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i will do that thanks very much bdw i am 33 years old and have 3 kids 18, 15 and 11 years old two boys one girl

Carol - posted on 08/06/2012

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You are either 15 and think this is a joke or you are really not very smart. Your first post had nothing to do with the real issues and you seem lost and confused. I am through trying to help you, if you are for real you are a sad excuse for a mom

Carol - posted on 08/06/2012

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Report him to Facebook and the police. That is cyber bullying and it needs to be stopped. Get some help for your daughter too.

Cindy - posted on 08/06/2012

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i did talk to the boy by tell him she it 11 years old and don't call her phone then he went on facebook and add she is a ho and he make her do it on the phone with him many time he say he is 15 years old

Carol - posted on 08/06/2012

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Talk to the boy if he calls, tell him you are notifying the police that he is harassing your daughter. Plese sit with her and explain the danger she is in and that she has placed your family in. Let me say again, this is most likely not a "boy" but a pedophile.

Cindy - posted on 08/06/2012

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i did 't know she was on facebook a friend told me. so i cut out the intenet from my home and take away her phone from her and the boy keep call the phone and senting text message that he is missing her and he want to do it on the phone with her

Carol - posted on 08/06/2012

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You now have the perfect grounds for the conversation, are you old enough to have a boyfriend. No, not if you will award that word to a stranger who could be awful. No, not if you endanger our whole family by giving information to a stranger. No, not if you think some stranger telling you they love you is OK.

Cindy - posted on 08/06/2012

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this boy she meet is on facebook and she give him her phone number he has being calling her at night and sent her text message her tell her he love her

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