Kelly - posted on 01/08/2011 ( 113 moms have responded )
My Daughter "Julie" has been living with her biological father 85 miles away for the last 2 years. On 9/26/2010 she told her step-mom that my husband, whom has raised her since she was 2 months old has been molesting her for years. My husband and I have 2 children together. Both girls 9 & 4. Step-mom (who is a GREAT Mom to my daughter) called me and I later spoke with my daughter "Julie". In detail she told me stories that made my skin crawl, I wanted to curl up in a ball and die. Immediately I approached my husband and he denied it. I asked him to leave the home because truth be told I was afraid I would become violent and do something that would leave my youngest children without parents. I called the police, I spoke to my Bishop, I've seen professional help. And all in all nothing came of it. I am a MESS. I will never forget the stories "Julie" told me....it haunts me everyday. My husband swears he would never do that and that he loves my daughter as if she was his own and he is very convincing. I catch myself wondering if my daughter is lying or if he is, I don't leave my children alone with him EVER and the whole thing is driving me crazy. There is no black or white, I have no proof that he did or didn't do it. My heart hurts so bad. I don't want to hurt like this for the rest of my life. I am truly lost. I'm 33 and I don't know what to do.