My 22 yr old son is always in his computer

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 11/19/2012

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He's 22 Even in the Philippines, he's an adult who needs to be told that you will not support him anymore.



Actually, I've dated philipino men, and they couldn't wait until they were OUT of the house, and not having mommy take care of them.



So, he's an adult, and he's only paying half of his bills, so you cut him off for the other half. Simple enough. Then he's only spending half of his time on the computer, leaving the other half of his time to get himself a job and become self sufficient.



Even my 18 YO pays his own bills. Yeah, he's paying ME, because he's living in the house, but he's paying his full share of his expenses. Plus doing his own laundry, feeding himself, cooking for the family one day a week and contributing to household upkeep.

Lyn - posted on 11/19/2012

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half of it lol.... since we're from Philippines we have diff. culture there so hs used of being taking care off.

Jodi - posted on 11/19/2012

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Where is he getting his money then? He is paying for his food, washing his own clothes, paying rent, paying for his internet connection, etc. isn't he?

Jodi - posted on 11/19/2012

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I figure as long as he has a job, and is in some way supporting himself, and not loafing off others, it's really not something you can do anything about. He's an adult.

Jodi - posted on 11/19/2012

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Who is supporting his habit? Does he have a job? If not, then someone is enabling him. Stop.

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