My 22 yr old son is always in his computer
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Shawnn - posted on 11/19/2012
He's 22 Even in the Philippines, he's an adult who needs to be told that you will not support him anymore.
Actually, I've dated philipino men, and they couldn't wait until they were OUT of the house, and not having mommy take care of them.
So, he's an adult, and he's only paying half of his bills, so you cut him off for the other half. Simple enough. Then he's only spending half of his time on the computer, leaving the other half of his time to get himself a job and become self sufficient.
Even my 18 YO pays his own bills. Yeah, he's paying ME, because he's living in the house, but he's paying his full share of his expenses. Plus doing his own laundry, feeding himself, cooking for the family one day a week and contributing to household upkeep.
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