Melany - posted on 11/12/2009 ( 115 moms have responded )
My mother in law is driving me crazy!!! The way she acts i swear she wants 2 be my daughters mother. I try and make sure that every week i take my daughter 2 see my parent and then my husbands fam, but it's not enough she complains that she wants 2 see her every day and then sed she would compromise for 2days a week one being without my husband and i around Like shes some kind of object or sumthin anyways i didnt allow it but the one day that we do go there she wont let me have anything 2 do with my daughter and if my daughter wants me she says no and takes her away Im scared 2 say or do anything around her cause it like walkin on egg shells if u don't do what she wants it's a big fight. Anyways i also feel like i am in comp with them if i do or get somthing for my daughter they have 2 out do me she trys doing all the first and stuff that should be what the parent does she even is now planin on making a room for her because i chose 2 do tinker bell when they wanted me 2 do princess . I dont see y she needs a room made for her there when shes not gonna be staying there her self very much only when i need her 2, her room is at our house. She also acts like she is the only grandparent and is jealous if i say anything about my family. I cant even post very many pics on my pages cause she steals them all even though she has alot of her own. OH and then when she does watch my daughter she doesnt even take care of her right. I wish i could just not be involverd with them but it's my husbands fam and they our her grandparents but sometime they just push me 2 far but im 2 nice 2 say anything anyways i guess wut im asking is what do i do and how do i make her realize she is the grandparent not the mother?
Update my mil and i jus got in a huge fight my daughter was not around but still i did not want it 2 come 2 that but it did i now feel alot better and she says everything is ok we shall see i will update!