Brandee - posted on 02/12/2013 ( 222 moms have responded )
My husband is laid off from work right now. He gets irritated within 5 to 10 minutes with our 1 and 2 years old after we all get up in the morning. He constantly yells at them and swears and calls the retards and stupid. He also uses names like bonehead, peckerhead, and other names. I tell him all the time to quit talking to them like that and not to flip out on them all the time like he does. He tells me to shut up and not tell him what to do. Its even worse at night if one of the kids wakes up and starts crying and happens to be unlucky enough to wake him up. I dont know what else to do. I get on him with treating his older two like that so the little ones wont think that its normal behavior but he doesnt listen. After a day or two of having to watch them so I can work he yells at me and tells me that I need to find them a babysitter because he is sick of their crap already. I just need advice on what I can do to make him stop.