Oral sex is not sex

Dorothy - posted on 01/17/2010 ( 204 moms have responded )

2

4

My 23 yr old daughter and I were conversing about how teens and young adult believe that oral sex is not sex. She believes that intercourse is the only type of sex because is only used when there is love/caring. I had overheard other teens make this statement too. I was wondering how many parents have heard of this opinion by teens and young adults?

This conversation has been closed to further comments

Join Circle of Moms

Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.

Join Circle of Moms

204 Comments

View replies by

Jocelyn - posted on 01/17/2010

5,165

42

I agree with Lindsay. I don't believe it is full on sex, but more of a foreplay (for lack of a better word...)

Vera - posted on 01/17/2010

2

13

I have heard teens saying alot. Mostly performed on school ground.

Rebecca - posted on 01/17/2010

1,988

118

Well the name says it all in my opinion...oral SEX! It is sex to me and yes it is just as sacred in the views of my eyes and should not be given away to make a guy happy. You can still get STD's and AIDS so yes it is sex.

Lindsay - posted on 01/17/2010

3,532

26

I think that oral sex is a sexual act but truly not sex. I consider it more of a foreplay so to speak. But I think kid do need to know that just because you can't get pregnant with oral sex, STDs are still a factor....