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Its a very long story , I am in a very disfuntional relationship with a 30 year old man I met 3 years ago in school , who moved to my city and pushed his way into my life and home. I have a beautiful busy 5 year old son who is my world , and i am slowly losing all control of our lives since this man moved into our home 1 year ago. I am responsible for myself and son , so you can imagine what happened next i have been the main support of everything to finaces, transportaion and the list get worse!! I have begged him to leave countless times, driven him to the airport , given cab fair and he kept coming back. I allowed this all to happen to myself. I have endured a very tuff year with him here and survived but i am working to support my son and in school and found out I am 6 weeks pregnant . I need help !! I am so scared of what my life will be for my son and the angle in my tummy , living any longer with this negative , leaching , abusive and insecure person. I am not concerned about him and his faults, i want nothing more from him or any of this , I push myself to grow daily and keep forward movement in my life , but i am worried about everything i have to lose at this moment since i am starting to lose myself. I need advice on my options , serious . Im smart and i know better but i cant seem to come to terms with not having this baby or with him effecting me any longer . Please talk me through the first steps here ,,, this is so sad. I am 28 and a good mommy , my son is what makes my life daily . Loving my son is easy , raising a gentlemen never is easy ... This sisuation is about to easlily ruin our lives .