JoyC - posted on 03/30/2012 ( 21 moms have responded )
Please help me! ... I 've got a 2yr old son that just started goin 2 school.So far he would stay home with me until about 2pm .Then my mother would take over until i went to pick him up ( round 7-8 pm ).I am a professional singer and also a single mom in a six month relationship with a musician which happens to be the first man in my life that my son gets to meet as we all live together now.My son never met his dad and we have no communication with him either, and honestly i dont want my son to ever know him because he was, n still is on heavy drugs, and also going in and out of jail from what i am hearing!Anyway to cut a long story short..Today he asked for the first time " where is daddy "!! WHAT DO I TELL HIM? Me and my bf we are going serious but there's no guaranties in life!... Also another problem is that we ( me and my boyfriend) have to take a job for six months on a cruise ship because things are getting really tough for musicians and singers where am coming from and that is the only way i can provide for a very good and secured income for six months continually! So now that he is asking about his father am also going to be going away (because that is our only choice) Please let me know ! Any kind of opinion will be helpful! I tried ma hardest to put my problem into a few words describing as best as i can my situation!