Tabitha - posted on 03/03/2010 ( 55 moms have responded )
SO my mother in law takes us to Costco today to use her membership card. When coming home she mentions how I guess my mom and her made arrangements on having a BBQ at her house, which I didnt mind. I did mention to her if we are going to be having it outside to NOT smoke around the baby still who is 6 months, even though it is outside I think you guys can go to the front of the house when yall smoke. She gets all pissed and says " I dont know what you big deal is, why do you have such a problem" MIND you I have asked her and her husband TIME AND TIME AGAIN TO NOT SMOKE AROUND my daughter or with my daughter in the houe I have been nice as can be got personal with an email in person the WHOLE 9, I have DONE all that I cando. I am NOT gonna allow it to be ok at any time for her to smoke around her. Also let me add when we went to load the car today at the store she lite up with my daughter less tan 1 foot away. IM DONE IM PISSED IM DISRESPECTED I COULD GO ON. I need advice some sanity some SOMETHING. I keep trying to makes sincere effort and NOTHING in return she had the nerve to tell me "You have to think about the smoker vs the non smokers, smokers weighs it out" I CUT HER OFF BEFORE SHE COULD FINISH HER LAST WORD and SAID " I DONT FUCKING CARE IF IT IS 100 to 1 , You obviously can not respect my daughter and her health, weather you smoke or raise kids or grandkids smoking I DONT CARE" THAN she STORMED off driving with out saying BYE at all. I FURIOUS. ANYONE HAVE ADVICE SANITY. ANYTHING????