Jessi - posted on 09/19/2010 ( 120 moms have responded )
the father has never met my son. he has only sent 2 gifts, both 1mo before my son turned 1 (is almost 2). has called twice in the last 2yrs. lied to me about his last g/f and has yet to tell me about the new g/f (i know about her from his ex who i talk to). child support is only being paid b/c the army is garnishing his wages. only his family has made an attempt to be apart of my son's life to include his older son's mom.
i have tried to keep the door open for him if he chose to be there and i think i would continue to but would it be right to ask him to sign his rights over since he's never been involved since i told him i was pregnant? he's not even on the birth certificate nor does my son carry his last name.