Elisabete - posted on 10/14/2009 ( 14 moms have responded )
i have noticed that women who have more than 3 children and have no family support dnt get any help from many of the hospitals .
with my first 3 kids all was well but once i had number 4 they made it impossible to catter for my needs .they always ask for me to have an extra adult to be at the birth apart from my husband and iam not allowed to have all my kids at the birth i have to get sitters or strangers to look after my kids even though iam against it and i dnt belive in having my kids care for by anyone but me or my partner. we have no family or friends who can help but the hospitals ive been too or rang in tasmania dnt seem to change any rules .
anyone else had simular problems ?
iam pregnant with number 6 and iam having the same problem where iam having to work out who will look after my kids and having to ahve strangers who i dnt know very well be in the labour word when all i want to do is do it without spectators .whats your views?