Erica - posted on 05/18/2011 ( 55 moms have responded )
A couple months after my daughter was born I found her dad, my boyfriend at the time, doing drugs in our apartment. Nothing petty either.. I immediately gave him 30 minutes to get everything out and leave. Its been almost two months, he has his own apartment, and I know he is still occasionally doing this drug. I let him see our daughter every few days at MY apartment and only when I'm home and he looks/acts sober. Of course however there is no way for me to know if he is honestly staying clean/sober. Should I cut off all visitation or should I suffer through this not knowing?