Krystal - posted on 07/13/2011 ( 209 moms have responded )
My daughter's father has a court order that he must have supervised visits with my daughter. Reason being is that when we were together, he was very abusive towards both me and my daughter. Some of the things he did were: lighting my daughter's playpen on fire, pushing her to the ground when she touched his stuff, watching her roll of the bed 4 times and each time called her stupid and it was her fault, coming up behind her and scaring her, locking her in her room and refusing to feed her because he had to finish his video game, put her in the porch with the dog and cat litter box while he went out for a smoke...list goes on. With all these inccidents my daughter was only 0-6 months old at the time. In July 2010, he got mad at me and threw a remote control at me, which he missed and it hit our daughter in the head, then picked up the other one and threw it at me, which bounced off the wall and hit me in the neck. Long story short, I went to the local police station and told them what happened, they arressted him for assult with a deadly weapon. I ended up feeling bad and had them dropped and took him back. That same day, he went right back to his old ways. I ended up moving back in with my parents. Back in March of this year, I took him to court. The courts said he needs to call everyday between 3-4pm to talk with our daughter, come down every 2 weeks to see her, and send child support money twice a month. The only thing he has done right is send the money.
He is now demanding to take her for weekends so she can meet her "new mommy" because it's not fair that my fiance gets to be around her. He never comes down to see, in fact the last time he saw her was on her birthday back in October of last year, he rarely calls to talk to her, and when he does it goes more like "Hey how is my little girl doing?? And who are you sleeping with, I have a right to know". Most recently, he has sent me several rude and threatening emails because his ex-best friend is now friends with my man....
Now, my question is, should I allow him to take her for weekends?