Ashley - posted on 03/06/2010 ( 5 moms have responded )
My childrens father and I split 2 years ago. At first he was getting them every weekend and calling them a few times a week. It has slowly dwindled to just about one night a month and no phone calls. In the last 6 months or so the boys actually started getting upset when it was time to go, to the point that my 5 yr old was so upset there he was vomiting. I would question my 9 yr old about what happened there and he would kinda brush me off. But the last 3 out of 4 times they went to visit I've had to go pick them up early because him and his girlfriend are fighting. My 9yr old told me his father was crying and his girlfriend was screaming and her father was trying to calm her down. She also harasses me fairly often via text message. Both of my children have said they don't want to go back. How do I handle that? I don't want to cut their father out of there life, but I dont want them in that kind of enviroment either.