Jane - posted on 09/06/2012 ( 8 moms have responded )
I had a boyfriend for 2 years...just broke up 4 months ago. We are both 64 but youthful. I thought he was a great guy but found out he was still seeing and sleeping with his 2nd wife who is 48. When I confronted her, she told me that he had sexually abused her daughter, his step daughter, when she was a young teen. That was 10 years ago. She divorced him but he and the ex wife still had some kind of sick relationship. He admitted to me that the sexual abuse of his step daughter was true...and I also found out that he had abused a niece years ago as well. Obviously we broke up.He says he is reformed, he is very religious now. ..has been for 8 years. He says that was the old guy who is never coming back, but I don't know if that behavior can change. Now I hear he has a new girlfriend who he is already talking marriage to...she has some grand daughters. I feel like he won't tell her, just like he didn't tell me, and I feel it is somehow my responsibility to tell her...anonymously. I don't know what to do. I really need some good advice. Thank you.