Ashley - posted on 05/01/2012 ( 205 moms have responded )
OK i got pregnant at 17 and had a baby with a boy in high school we was not in a relationship at all once i the baby was born and we only dated for about 4 mths all together anyways he helped me with him somewhat in high school ,and if it wasnt for him i might not of graduated, as soon as i graduated i moved to another state meet a man and got married,my son had just turned 1 by then. when i got there he didnt try to keep in touch i always called him to tell him how his son was doing. so i quit to see how long it would take for him to call, he never called just his family, so i just didnt try any more he didint send any support either......Now five years later my son is 6 his real father has maybe called twice in 5 yrs and paid child support maybe 3 times a year since then which is only 200 dollars a mth..NOw he has just called wanting to be in his life now and apologizing for not being there that he was just scared, he wants to pay for a plane ticket for me and him to go down there so he can spend time with is son im not sure what to do if i should let him and hope he dont run away again and my son gets hurt, or i should say no untill he can prove himself to me and right now he is just a stranger to me i dont know his life anymore and if my son will be safe im not sure what to do,AND my son dosnt even know about him haveing another dad he thinks that the guy a married is his dad. But if i dont tell him i dont want him being mad at me later in life for not telling him and letting him meet his real dad soo is there any one out there that can tell me what to do?? HELP BIG DICIsions here.