SO I HAVE 3 BOYS AND I LOVE THEM TO DEATH BUT I FEEL I WANT A LIL GIRL BUT 4 KIDS WOULD BE ALOT DO U THINK I SHOULD GO FOR ANOTHER ONE I WAS THINKING WHEN MY YOUNGEST TURN 2 I WOULD START TRYING

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Jamie - posted on 02/14/2009

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Absolutely 100%! I had 2 boys and went round 3 for a girl and got her! Lucky I know. I think the transition from 2-3 was a breeze so....I figured what the heck. I am expecting my 4th in July, and I'm not one of those people who stays at home all day and home schools. My little girl is amazing!! If you are having a strong desire for a girl-don't let anything stand in your way. They are worth every second!

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I have 2 girls and I am expecting in April a boy! I am blessed to have my 2 girls and am excited to have a boy but I am really annoyed by how people can be so opinionated, I mean the constant OH! Finally a boy, I cringe when I hear that, yes I have to girls and I'm not having babies for competition. I am blessed we are having a boy after losing 2 in between. I cannot choose, God only knows what we will be blessed with. My husband gets me and is annoyed with the FINALLY a boy thing, we both would of loved another girl. Just be content with what you have and what if you don't end up with a boy, it's a girl again, think about how you will feel before you decide to get pregnant again. Best wishes!

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I have 2 girls and I am expecting in April a boy! I am blessed to have my 2 girls and am excited to have a boy but I am really annoyed by how people can be so opinionated, I mean the constant OH! Finally a boy, I cringe when I hear that, yes I have to girls and I'm not having babies for competition. I am blessed we are having a boy after losing 2 in between. I cannot choose, God only knows what we will be blessed with. My husband gets me and is annoyed with the FINALLY a boy thing, we both would of loved another girl. Just be content with what you have and what if you don't end up with a boy, it's a girl again, think about how you will feel before you decide to get pregnant again. Best wishes!

Jane - posted on 02/14/2009

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i am 27 and i have 4 daughters all under 6 i thought it would be hard with 4 but i haven't found it any different to having 3 so go for it, i tried for a boy got 4 girls but would'nt change them for the world good luck jane x

Kristy - posted on 02/13/2009

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my friend wanted a girl so she kept trying, she ended up with 6 boys. if u really want a girl i say go 4 it. u have enough love 2 spread around. if u dont get a girl its no big deal. im sure no matter what u'll still b a great mum.

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have you thought of adopting, or being a foster mom. Being a foster mom could give you a chance to get a daughter that is maybe a little older and you could still have the bonding of a young lady as well.I have adopted three of my foster children, two girls and a boy...its a thought.

Holly - posted on 02/13/2009

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Don't have another to just try for a girl, god can play tricks on you , you have to be happy no matter what sex you get, what if you get another boy , your going to have four boys, gonna try for five?I had 2 boys and did try one more time and got LUCKY but no matter what i got i was happy as long as they had all the fingers and toes...good luck!

Dia - posted on 02/13/2009

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Just go with your heart, if you think it is right and your spouse is behind you go for it, and two is the perfect age to start trying not to close and not to far apart.

Andrea - posted on 02/13/2009

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I have five kids, 10yrs-7 months. In my opinion, the more the merrier. What will you do if you have another boy? I really don't notice the difference between four and five. Claire is my last and she has totally completed our family. I think you will know when you're family is complete. Good luck with you're decision.

Alma - posted on 02/13/2009

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GO FOR IT!! I have two boys and two girls and definetly both sex are so different and give you different emotions that if you can try it dont let it go. I hope you get your girl, when they grow up the are for Mommy, remember that boys are for their women.

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hi huni



what if it is another boy? 4 kids huh only one more than 3 bet if u where told years ago u wud have 3 kids u wud have had the same reaction. you alays manage u always cope your a woman lol. good luck



sharon



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Quoting Jamie:

SO I HAVE 3 BOYS AND I LOVE THEM TO DEATH BUT I FEEL I WANT A LIL GIRL BUT 4 KIDS WOULD BE ALOT DO U THINK I SHOULD GO FOR ANOTHER ONE I WAS THINKING WHEN MY YOUNGEST TURN 2 I WOULD START TRYING



i feel you would have another boy if you did try for another!



 

Monica - posted on 02/13/2009

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I know it's a lot,.BUT if you don't try you won't have anything to regret. The bond I have with my daughter is unlike any other...,.I can't imagine life without her

Jackie - posted on 02/13/2009

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Keep trying until you get a girl...If it was me I would most likely have another boy!!!  Good luck, girls are great, but boy oh boy, they are harder!!!  The drama...LOL...Love my daughter to death, but I am pregnant now and am hoping for a boy.

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I have four beautiful girls from 13 to 18 months.  I would love to have a boy, I think it's just the strong desire to have what you don't know?  I have finally decided that I am done.  I have my four plus two step kids, and it is a lot.  I think the question is more are you sure you want four no matter what sex.  I know my cousin has four, three boys and one girl, she says she'd have four more boys before another girl, her daughter is 17...her boys range from 19 to 10.  It's all a matter of do you feel like you can stretch yourself and still feel like you with four.  As far as when...I wouldn't start any later than when the youngest is two, too big a gap isn't so much fun!  You get used to the kids being more independent and then you have to start all over again.  It's a lot of work sometimes, but I have to say I do love having four.



 

Kira - posted on 02/13/2009

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It all depends on how many you think you can handle. If you can provide and desperately want a girl  i would try. two sounds like a good age. Good Luck! 

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