Shereen - posted on 05/03/2010 ( 11 moms have responded )
ok so i have reached the limit of crap i can take from my daughters father when i found out he is doing drugs and alcohol and dumping his heavy carpentry equipment of the porta cot i lent him to he could take our daughter sometimes.
I called a family relationships place to try an out of court settlement. So they mediate our session so we can try to work out a suitable arrangement for our daughter. When he was told of this he has said "i am a fool...i'm trying to take our daughter away from him...and that he won't go" now i was not orginially trying to take her away from him just get supervised legally binding visits so that i feel comfortable knowing she isn't alone with him when he could be hung over, stoned, drunk or god knows what else. So now he's forced me to take him to court. Which i really honestly didn't want to do cuz my parents divorced so i was trying hard to avoid this road.
I guess i just wanna know if i am overreacting by doing all this or i really have a right to be upset by this.
I know you all don't know the million things he has done to us but i guess il tell you the worst
he said "if i had to pick as to whether i die to save mia or vice versa, id rather kill her and save myself...i never wanted her remember?"