Toni - posted on 11/03/2009 ( 153 moms have responded )
My oldest daughter (17 yrs old) is dating a 19 yr old boy, rather stoner. She has straight A's. She is beautiful, bubbly and can do better. They have been datin for exactly 1 yr. Believe me I have tried to break them up. I kno the harder I push the more she will want to be with him. He isn't that bad but he does have a record and is in trouble w/th law now (mary jane). We are small town, he is not. Hell he's polynesian. That does not bother me. What does is he's a stoner. She isn't. She knos exactly what college she is going to and what her major is. He don't like it. He is tryin to be controling with her. Tellin her where she can and cant go. (Me tarzan U jane) crap. He makes her cry alot and it is starting to affect her self-esteem. He has already graduated (thank god).
I kno none of you kno me, but I am a force to be reckoned with. He is on very thin ice w/me. Yes I am a redneck and proud of it. But i'm not stupid by any means.
Basically I want him gone, but don't kno how to do it. It needs to be her idea or her own doing but how do I get her to do that? Up for any ideas.