Brianne - posted on 04/27/2011 ( 12 moms have responded )
I have a court ordered supervised visitation for my 10 year old
daughter, her dad disappeared for 8 years and just decided one day he wanted to be in her life, I of course went through the court. After a year of court I was award full custody , he got supervised visitation, with a social worker he chose an hour from my home. My daughter has met with him about 7 times for an hour each time, every 2-3 weeks. The social worker has made me out to be the bad guy, my daughter wanted to
have a visit out side the office and she suggested in front of her that I should let him pick her up, or bring her to see him my self, now I should mention me and her father broke up because he attacked me when she was born wile I was holding her, but I still let his parents take her for the weekend and he lived with them, until when she was 2 she was attacked by ther dog and they took her to the er and never called me utill a day later, when they brought her back to me she has stitches
in her face, by the next day she was lethargic and I took her to
hospital and she had an infection in her bady and was admitted for 1 week, after that I wouldn't let her go over there again and he just disappeared. Now the social worker left me a message saying his girlfriends son has a birthday that falls on his next visit ad that he would like to have her come, the party's in another state, I have no intention on bringing her of course, also she suggested his parents pick her up and and take her there and bring her back, but nonce again
i will be the bad guys because what kid doesn't want to got to a party, also she suggested that I consider letting him see her at 7 pm on Friday without her present, is ths normal for a social worker to do, should I tell her off. And am I only obligated to let her see him see him with supervise visits, will it make me look bad if I doint let him take her if we go back to court? Has anyone else been in the situation?