what are the sign that your husband cheated you?

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Dove - posted on 12/22/2012

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He may or may not be cheating on you, but he IS controlling you and that's abuse. I understand you not wanting your son to grow up in a split home, but ask yourself this.... How will you feel if when your son is a man he treats his wife the way you are treated? Would that make you proud of your son? If not, get counseling and decide whether or not you are going to get out.

You can not change your husband. Only HE can do that. If he is not willing to change and/or go to counseling with you... the only thing you CAN do is decide if you will spend the rest of your life living like this or if you want to get out and show your son that treating a woman this way is unacceptable.

Good luck!

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Kathi - posted on 09/16/2013

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Mine would sneak and get up in the dead of night, go into the bathroom with his cell and shut the door.. For an hour. She was working at a club and he was checking on her. Sweet isn't it? Then after being caught, found a sneak phone charger, Prepaid 20.00 phone. No sex, and he couldn't tell you from one minute to the next what I said to him. His head was wrapped around her. He suddenly started washing his own clothes and going on a diet. This is round 3 for the same woman. This is 3 strikes you're out for me. Deal breaker. I am packing and struggling to keep it civil until I can go. I have no tears. Am I weird? I feel relieved yet in emotional pain. Weird or no??

Fely - posted on 01/04/2013

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thank you Michelle Waldbillig but i cant leave him when my child is already five. He always find his father presence. i want a legal and formal i need to more patience.

Michelle - posted on 01/04/2013

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You can't change people.

It's not always sad being brought up in a broken home. It's worse being brought up in a home where the parent/s AREN'T happy.

Fely - posted on 01/04/2013

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my husband always have overtime he dont have time with his family. He always come at home 11 to 1 am every monday to saturday. my mind getting jelouse to his work when i said that i want to work also. but he dont want me to work and this matter creat us a quarrel. I dont like this setting of my family i am very loyal wife i have a small internet cafe which i running everyday without a nanny of my child i only do the works of my house my child and the internet. im so tired but i need to do this for my kid. for the sake that i am from broken family i dont want to be break my family. i dont have a relatives here to talk for my mother is far or take an to go there and my husband didnt want me to go to my parents place. sometimes i think that my husband cheate me eventually but i was not focusing there. i always make myself busy and almost of the time my heart beats faster for i think my husband. one day when i open a can i got wound all the things i touch i wound i dont know that time im so very tense. sometimes my heart not good it fast. what should i do...please give me some advice i need an advice.

Fely - posted on 12/22/2012

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And this few days somebody told me that my husband act as a single which the place he works.
then his companion co worker has a feelings to that girl.
but the girl said i don't like you but he like my husband.
my husband told me that if he change a department he going to make ride what the girl wants.
And the attitude change he don't want me to call cellphone not unattended and he conscious his body. I said to him that you know there is a man in school he look at me and want to talk to me and i don't know his purpose. Then he angry bout what i said.

Fely - posted on 12/22/2012

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He always promise me to change and not to hurt my feelings but he always did. I said to him i would like to go there but he don't want me to go. How i can change him? i mind my son which is 5 years old. I came from a broken family and i know how sad of life of being child when he see that his parent not intact. i do all things for my son, i married him almost 9 years and with this year i sacrifices all my husband will. But this few days my emotion carried me off and i cant handle it and it boom. i try to handle every single emotion comes from me..we made a quarrel several months for the reason that he wants me to be perfect what he going to say.

Michelle - posted on 12/22/2012

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In my opinion, he's just very controlling.

He is controlling every aspect of your life. You either need to stand up to him and let him know that he isn't your Father and you are a grown woman that can make her own choices or leave him. In my experience, men who like to control women don't change though.

I'm sorry if it offends, but I was brought up in a household where everyone was equal, it didn't matter if you were male or female. I also run my house the same way.

Fely - posted on 12/22/2012

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My husband not want to see me talking another boy or man. When we alone its a great problem troubles come. He dont want me to work when im going to downtown he will be with me. And my husband told me what should i do or not. Just always things follows to avoid trouble.

Michelle - posted on 12/22/2012

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There can be many or none. A bit more information would help.

My ex husband always accused me of cheating on him, that was the biggest sign for me.

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